Have you ever wondered what the difference is
between "drama" and "emotion" - because your man
seems to cower whenever you seem even on the verge
of becoming "emotional"?

Hi, Ladies, if you've ever tried to "reign
yourself in" when you were feeling emotional, so
you wouldn't "scare off" your man - but it
backfired on you and he just got more distant
anyway - I can help.

Attraction is mysterious, and that works in OUR
favor, because - and JUST because - we're a woman,
we're AUTOMATICALLY mysterious! Being a woman
instantly makes us the "unknown" for a man - and
then he feels COMPELLED to step into our "unknown"
- with his full heart.

To learn exactly how to do this - to powerfully
attract your man without ANY EFFORT at all, take
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Dear Ladies,

Have you ever wondered what the difference is
between "drama" and "emotion" - because your man
seems to cower whenever you seem even on the verge
of becoming "emotional"?

There are lots of ways to describe the
difference - but here's a simple one, and it will
lead us to a new Tool:

Emotion is something you FEEL, and Drama is
something you DO.

Emotion is something you EXPRESS, and Drama is
something you ACT OUT.

So what does that look like?

Let's say you're feeling Anger. Really intense,
scary anger.

And then you EXPRESS that anger in your body by
feeling the heat of the anger in your stomach,
feeling the tension of the anger in your
shoulders, and perhaps your face even gets red and
you start to clench your hands, and then you
express that Anger with your words by saying "I
feel angry."

That's "emotion."

Or, same scenario, you're feeling intense,
scary Anger, and, yes your face still gets red,
but instead of FEELING how your body actually
feels and experiencing that feeling and staying
with it and expressing it simply, you feel only
the uncontrollable urge to get RID of the
possibility of those feelings by yelling, verbally
attacking, making him wrong, fixing the situation,
slamming a door, throwing something, canceling a
date, taking revenge, checking up on him, or some
other ACTION.

That's DRAMA.

Or - here's the third alternative - you feel
intense, scary anger, and instead of feeling how
your body actually feels and staying with it, or
trying to rid yourself of those feelings through
action, you STUFF everything down and SMILE.

Now - that would seem "doormat-y" and "weak,"
or in some circumstances - "appropriate."

And yet - THAT'S DRAMA, too!

Because there's another step after we stuff the
anger down and smile.

And that step is however we attempt to get rid
of the angry feelings - because they can't stay
stuffed forever.

Usually, we'll try a "discussion" about "what
happened."

Or we'll try to make sure the same
circumstances that made us so angry NEVER happen
again.

Or - and this is what most ALWAYS happens - we
shut down inside. We go COLD. We shut out our
man.

And this is serious DRAMA, even though it might
not seem like it.

And it's the most damaging Drama we can do.

Doing this kind of Drama is so damaging because
we're usually not even aware of it.

We can't quite put our finger on what's wrong -
we can't even feel how we've become defensive and
shut down - sometimes even numb.

But we become "inauthentic" by smiling when
anyone who can read "vibes" (our man is much
better at this than we give him credit for) can
tell we're not actually "happy," then we shut him
out of our hearts.

And then he goes cold and distant, and then the
whole cycle starts over again...

...with the original anger NEVER, EVER seeing
the light of day - just the DRAMA.

We may cry alone, in our own homes or in the
bathroom of a home we share with our man - but we
never let him see our tears because we've already
gone so far past the original emotion and so far
into Drama that we feel terrified we'll "scare him
away."

And we likely would - because men ARE scared by
DRAMA.

All this happens because we can't bear to FEEL
our anger.

All this DRAMA happens because we think it's
our EMOTIONS that will scare a man away.

So - how do we start to fix this?

Try this Tool: ONE FAUCET.

Here's how it works:

Most of us think that we have a lot of
different emotional "faucets" - one for tears, one
for anger, one for joy...but it doesn't work that
way.

If you have any of my programs, then you know
about "The Soup" - where all our emotions are,
altogether.

Well, if the "faucet" is the direct line from
the Soup of our emotions to our hearts and minds
and bodies and words- and all the emotions in the
soup are in there together...

...and there's only ONE FAUCET - then you can't
shut off "anger" without shutting off "joy," too.

In other words - you're either OPEN or your
CLOSED.

Your "faucet" is either open or closed.

The emotions either flow out the faucet, or
they stay stuck in the Soup.

You can't pick and choose.

You can't say - I'll take the "bliss," hold the
"pain."

You have to feel, acknowledge, experience them
ALL - whatever shows up, whatever flows out.

And when you can do that - all of a sudden it's
not so scary.

Really - you get used to it.

You get used to being an OPEN FAUCET. You get
used to having only ONE FAUCET, and you start
LOVING that it's always open.

And you get some great results.

All of a sudden your man pays you more
attention.

All of a sudden it feels like he CARES what
YOU'RE feeling.

He's interested. He's sucked into you. Things
turn around.

Things warm up.

An amazing thing happens, too, once you get
used to feeling feelings you once would have tried
to get rid of or stuff down.

Once you start practicing my Feeling Messages -
it becomes a snap to EXPRESS those feelings in
words.

(It even works the other way around - the more
you practice Feeling Messages, the EASIER it gets
to FEEL your feelings! Win-win all around.)

So try this right now - imagining that you have
only One Faucet to your emotions, and that FEELING
every one of them is a good and great and positive
and ATTRACTIVE thing.

A "thing" a man will love you for.

In my Modern Siren program, I go through this
process with you, and with the women in the
audience.

I show you how to stand, how to respond, and
WHAT TO SAY when you're feeling angry, frustrated,
desperate, confused or just plain weary around a
man.

You'll be able to see for yourself the
difference between "thinking" an emotion, and
actually "feeling" it when you see how the women
respond during a very specific role-play exercise
I set up on stage.

Your man will be able to tell the difference,
too!

You'll actually SEE and FEEL the energy shift
inside your body and inside your man... and you'll
see the amazing ways it transforms the women who
attended the live taping of my Modern Siren
program.

Your man can sense when you're actually
experiencing an emotion, and he can also sense
when you're "intellectualizing" it. When you're
acting out. When you're creating DRAMA.

When a man senses your genuine and unfiltered
emotion, it draws him in to you. It softens him
toward you. It makes him INSPIRED to love you
more, to adore you.

So, if you'd like an incredible amount of help
turning your "emotions" into the goldmine for love
that they truly are, then order a free trial copy
of my Modern Siren program.

You'll learn how to clarify everything you're
feeling and use it to your FULLEST potential.

You'll get specific scripts to get you through
any situation with a man...

And learn other very powerful Tools that will
compel your man to fall deeper in love with you
than you (or he) ever thought possible.

You can watch some clips of it here -
and even work with the entire program for
absolutely free for 30 days right here:

http://www.elitematelove.com

Let me know how men respond to you when you
think of your emotions in this new way - and open
up your faucet!

Love, Rori

User: creatyoureality, span>Wayne, PA
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