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Learn how to meet women.

>>>Note: If you'd like to read the story of how I
learned to meet women, plus watch video clips of
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You know, it's been too long since we talked
about how to get a woman's email address and phone
number quickly after meeting her.

I thought it might be time to have another
conversation about it, and give you some more
great ideas...


THE CHALLENGE...

I can still remember exactly what it was like
before I learned some of the secrets of how to
meet women.

I have very clear memories of women that I saw
literally YEARS ago who I wanted to meet... but I
just didn't know what to do or how to do it.

In some of the cases, I was actually talking to
the girl, enjoying a conversation... and REALLY
wanting to ask her for her number... but I just
didn't do it.

But WHY?

Why didn't I just say, "Hey, give me your
number?"

The fact is that I was AFRAID.

I was afraid that I'd say the wrong thing, or
that the woman I was talking to would say "no," or
that I'd offend her... or whatever.

At the time, I always assumed that this was
some kind of strange curse that I had. I was
afraid of women, and didn't know what to say to
them, and I was ALONE.

In other words, I not only felt like I had a
SERIOUS insecurity issue and fear, but even WORSE,
I didn't feel like I could TELL anyone about it...
or get help.

I felt like a dork if I even MENTIONED the
topic to other guys... as if even talking about it
made it clear that I was a loser who didn't even
deserve an answer.

So here I was, over and over again, in
situations where I would see women I wanted to
meet... but I just didn't know what to do.

And I didn't know what would happen if I DID do
something. I was afraid of the unknown.

Eventually, this led me to believe that there
was probably something wrong with ME - that I
should just accept and deal with it... and that
I'd probably wind up either alone or having to
settle for a relationship with a woman that I
wasn't attracted to.




 

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