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If you want to succeed, meet her for real
Hey Guys--
Awhile back I wrote an episode regarding the use and abuse of social media, urging men to use it only as either a place to meet women or maintain fun contact and communication.
I ended it with, "real relationships happen in the real world."
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A day or so after I got a long, rambling email from a man telling me I was quite wrong, that he'd met and fallen in love with a woman on facebook, and they had a happy, healthy relationship.
And, one day, he planned to meet her in person as soon as she'd broken up with her abusive boyfriend.
You can't make stuff like this up. Just when I think I've seen and heard it all, I hear from someone suffering from both confusions and delusions.
Things like social media and dating sites are actually great ways to meet women you'd otherwise never meet, and keep in contact in ways you never could before. But I will say it one more time: real relationships happen in the real world.
Every time I see a news report about two people who met online, corresponded for months, fell in love, then decided to get married (where they will finally meet in person) I just roll my eyes. That marriage is going to become unraveled so fast it isn't even funny.
Online relationships are pure fantasy, because everything's always perfect, and there are none of the conflicts that arise when two people spend time together in person. They are for fantasy seekers and the delusional.
If you're a man who wants to succeed with women, then by all means use all avenues available to meet them--but then get off the damn internet, and get out into the real world.
That's where the real rewards are anyways.
On with the fun,
-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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