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Discovering "Sexual Communication" was one of the most important steps on my own journey to
success with women and dating.

If you'd like to master the art of triggering
ATTRACTION in women, then it's important for you
to learn how to use "Sexual Communication". Here
are a bunch of great tips, plus some interesting
video clips that will help you...

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AN INTERESTING STORY (OR SO)...

There are two basic stories for how men and
women "start off" together, and two basic stories
for how men and women "end up".

Through all of time, I'm sure that men and
women have been playing out these stories... and
I'm sure that they'll continue to play them out
long into the future (that is, unless I have
something to say about it... and I do).


THE MEETING STORIES

Here's "Meeting Story #1":

Boy is attracted to girl. Unfortunately, boy
doesn't have a clue about how to make girl feel
ATTRACTION for him... so, instead he tries to
"pursue" girl by offering her dinners, gifts, and
flowers. Girl finds boy "nice", but there are no
"sparks", so she "just likes him as a friend".

Here's "Meeting Story #2":

Boy is attracted to girl. Fortunately for him,
boy understands ATTRACTION, and begins to
communicate with girl in a way that makes her feel
a powerful physical and emotional response for boy
that she can't control. The sparks fly, and boy
and girl "get together".

As I'm sure you know...

In story #1, GIRL is in total control of the
situation and both of them know it.

In story #2, BOY is the one who's in control of
the situation.

 

THE STORIES OF HOW THINGS "END UP"

Let's assume that somehow, boy and girl
actually "get together". Things usually go one of
two ways after that...

Here's "End Up Story #1":

Boy and girl get together. Boy realizes that he
"REALLY likes" girl. Boy begins to act more and
more predictable. Boy starts to share "how he
feels" about girl too often. Boy becomes more and
more submissive. Girl loses that feeling of
ATTRACTION that she once had for boy and has no
way of explaining or understanding why. Girl
leaves boy and boy is left wondering what
happened.

Here's "End Up Story #2":

Boy and girl get together. Boy understands that
no matter how much he likes girl, he cannot let
himself become a Wussy who chases girl around
"sharing how he feels" and becomes boring. Boy
keeps the relationship interesting and he keeps
challenging girl. Boy stays in control of himself,
and by understanding his role as "The Man" in the
relationship, keeps girl interested and attracted
to him into the future.

And again, as I'm sure you know...

In story #1, GIRL is in total control of the
situation and both of them know it.

In story #2, BOY is the one who's in control of
the situation.

If you look at your experience with women, I'm
sure you'll see that these short stories describe
MOST of the experiences you've had.

Now, of course there are slight twists and
variations, but the message is clear:

YOU MUST UNDERSTAND HOW ATTRACTION WORKS FOR
WOMEN... AND HOW TO KEEP THE ATTRACTION GOING
WHEN YOU MEET A WOMAN YOU REALLY LIKE.

If you don't understand ATTRACTION and how it
works, then you are destined to keep playing out
these same stories for the rest of your life. It's
very unlikely that you'll stumble upon the "magic
solution" by accident...


ATTRACTION IS DIFFERENT FOR WOMEN THAN IT IS FOR
MEN - VERY DIFFERENT

The reality is that you CAN stop this negative
pattern if you WANT to.

But the key is:

1) Understanding how ATTRACTION works for WOMEN.

2) Understanding YOURSELF, so you don't ALLOW
yourself to act like a Wussy, become boring and
turn a good thing into a bad one... but instead
you do the RIGHT things to keep everything on the
right track.

If you know how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION
for you, then you can control your destiny with
women. If you DON'T know how to make a woman feel
ATTRACTION for you, then you cannot control your
destiny with women.

Read that paragraph again, and think about it
for a minute before you go on.

OK, so I mentioned that ATTRACTION is very
different for women than it is for men.

Different how?

What do I mean by that? ... Well, generally
speaking, for a woman, ATTRACTION is a PROCESS...
not an "event". It happens over time, and it
becomes stronger or weaker depending upon how well
the man in the situation understands how it works.


 



 

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