Men should focus on their woman

Twenty years ago if you went out with a woman, there were very
limited ways you could be interrupted.  You could run into a
friend, get an emergency call on the phone of the place you were
hanging out, or maybe even have a beeper go off.

That was about it, and for the most part, interruptions were a
rarity.  But today, they're the norm.

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Think of all the ways you can get interrupted now.  Cell phones.
Text messages.  Iphones connected to email and facebook.  And yes,
even pagers still exist.

Interruptions have become the norm, yet they are still the best way
to break the rhythm of attraction.  Ask any woman who's been on a
date with a guy who can't put his cell phone down, or sits there
trying to have a conversation while carrying on three different
texting conversations at once.

Women like a man to focus on them and only them, and quite frankly
if you're out with a woman that's what you should be doing.
There's no text message or phone call that can't wait a few
hours--you control the phone, it does not control you.

So, make it a point to put your phone on silent, and keep it out of
sight, out of mind while you are talking with a real, live woman.
And if she insists on talking and texting, either end the
interaction, or politely tell her you're much more interesting than
any conversation she might be having.

What you will discover is, you're able to focus on the moment and
time spent with her much more clearly than if you are dealing with
constant interruptions.  Yes, this should be common sense, but all
these interruptions in this day and age have apparently addled
men's brains.

Be sure yours is un-addled.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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