Just focus on being a cool guy.

Hey Guys--

When some guys discover that attracting women is a skill, they go
all out, trying all kinds of ridiculous things at the same time.

Some dress up in goofy fuzzy hats and platform boots.

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Some spout cheesy, memorized lines.

Others try to hypnotize women.

Some do all of the above.

And guess what?  All fail.  Why?  Because what they are doing kills
attraction.  Even if some of the things they are doing are
attractive, one or two of the other things kills it.

The first thing to keep in mind about attraction is this:  first do
no harm.  If there's a chance something may turn a woman off, don't
do it.  Sure you can expand what you do once you have some success,
but in the beginning you should avoid things that may kill
attraction.

So, there's no need to talk funny.  No need to dress up in
outlandish costumes.  No need to memorize lines and lines.

Just focus on being a cool guy, and avoiding attraction killing
behavior. Do that, and you will attract more women than all the
guys who try really hard, but wind up doing more harm than good.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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a picture of a hot woman, and you've got to see today's), one line
of wisdom, sarcasm and entertainment on my new blog at

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It's so cool you'll want to pass it around and leave your own witty
saying--see if you can top mine!

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