The rewards of embracing reality

Hey Guys--

You may not know this about me, but I have a lot of wishes, and I
seem to come up with new ones everyday.

Let me share some of them--I'll bet you have some of the same ones
too.

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I wish I could eat cheeseburgers, huge steaks and beef ribs
everyday and not get fat.

I wish I could drink fine Scotch and not get a hangover.  Or get
fat.

I wish I could be a nice guy to women and they'd fall for me.

I wish people would give me money with no work on my part
whatsoever.

I wish the Dallas Cowboys would just play good football (this is
apparently the most far-fetched wish on this list).

Yes, I have lots of wishes.  But you know what?  Reality doesn't
pay any attention to my wish list.  In fact, it sneers at it and
presents me with a different scenario.

If I want to be lean and fit, I have to carefully watch my diet,
exercise diligently and monitor my weight. I can only eat and drink
the things I love in strict moderation.

If I want to attract women I have to be naughty, funny, playful,
constantly on my game, making sure to lead in the interaction,
while realizing some women just won't be interested.

If I want to make money, I have to work very hard, constantly
learning and studying, knowing that some days I'll lose my ass.

As far as the Cowboys go?  Seems like I'm just plain screwed until
they get a real coach to mold all the talent they have.  Not much
*I* can do there.

So, I'm faced with two choices.  I can either pine and moan about
how bad the world is since it refuses to grant my wishes (the road
the girlie men take) or I can grudgingly embrace reality and pay
the price to get what I want.  But I still get what I want.

You face the same choice.  You can either keep wishing, or embrace
reality.  It's much easier to wish... but the rewards of embracing
reality are worth it.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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