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So how can you turn this completely UN- attractive attitude to your ADVANTAGE?
How can you USE this attitude to help you actually DRAW IN your man - or the man you've yet to meet?
Let's take it step-by-step.
I call this tool "Flowing Like the Sea", and it's one of 8 powerful tools from my Modern Siren program.
(In the program, I take you through the 8 Aspects of Being a Siren, so you can turn ANY situation around into an opportunity to be adored and loved.)
Here's how this Tool works:
1. This Tool is all about feeling how things are connected, and how things flow, one to the other, one moment to the next.
So you want to NOTICE that you're rushing, or that you're assuming things about yourself and a man. You want to notice what you're doing and what you're feeling.
First - ask yourself some questions - "Am I looking down? Am I ignoring everyone and everything that's around me? Am I in my head instead of in my Heart? In my head instead of in my feelings?" And the BIG question - "What am I FEELING?"
Stop what you're doing, wherever you are, and just ask yourself these questions - and answer them. Even if you're rushing. Just stop for a second and answer yourself.
2. If your answer is "Yes I'm ignoring everyone and everything, Yes I'm thinking, and Whoa - I feel ANGRY, or I feel SAD..." then notice what happens next.
Look up, look around, and see what's going on around you. If you're alone, look at the room you're in, or if you're outdoors, look at the plants, buildings or furniture around you.
3. Now FLOAT.
That's right. Just stand or sit there, put your arms out to your sides a little, imagine you're floating on top of the sea, and GIVE YOURSELF to the water.
If you feel silly, that's great. If you feel scared of the ocean, that's great. If you feel embarrassed, that's great.
Let your body sway with the imaginary waves that are carrying you.
Let whatever you're feeling come up. Let your feelings rise to the surface and float along with you.
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