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...and there's only ONE FAUCET - then you can't shut off "anger" without shutting off "joy," too.
In other words - you're either OPEN or your CLOSED.
Your "faucet" is either open or closed.
The emotions either flow out the faucet, or they stay stuck in the Soup.
You can't pick and choose.
You can't say - I'll take the "bliss," hold the "pain."
You have to feel, acknowledge, experience them ALL - whatever shows up, whatever flows out.
And when you can do that - all of a sudden it's not so scary.
Really - you get used to it.
You get used to being an OPEN FAUCET. You get used to having only ONE FAUCET, and you start LOVING that it's always open.
And you get some great results.
All of a sudden your man pays you more attention.
All of a sudden it feels like he CARES what YOU'RE feeling.
He's interested. He's sucked into you. Things turn around.
Things warm up.
An amazing thing happens, too, once you get used to feeling feelings you once would have tried to get rid of or stuff down.
Once you start practicing my Feeling Messages - it becomes a snap to EXPRESS those feelings in words.
(It even works the other way around - the more you practice Feeling Messages, the EASIER it gets to FEEL your feelings! Win-win all around.)
So try this right now - imagining that you have only One Faucet to your emotions, and that FEELING every one of them is a good and great and positive and ATTRACTIVE thing.
A "thing" a man will love you for.
In my Modern Siren program, I go through this process with you, and with the women in the audience.
I show you how to stand, how to respond, and WHAT TO SAY when you're feeling angry, frustrated, desperate, confused or just plain weary around a man.
You'll be able to see for yourself the difference between "thinking" an emotion, and actually "feeling" it when you see how the women respond during a very specific role-play exercise I set up on stage.
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