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You know, it's been too long since we talked about how to get a woman's email address and phone number quickly after meeting her.
I thought it might be time to have another conversation about it, and give you some more great ideas...
THE CHALLENGE...
I can still remember exactly what it was like before I learned some of the secrets of how to meet women.
I have very clear memories of women that I saw literally YEARS ago who I wanted to meet... but I just didn't know what to do or how to do it.
In some of the cases, I was actually talking to the girl, enjoying a conversation... and REALLY wanting to ask her for her number... but I just didn't do it.
But WHY?
Why didn't I just say, "Hey, give me your number?"
The fact is that I was AFRAID.
I was afraid that I'd say the wrong thing, or that the woman I was talking to would say "no," or that I'd offend her... or whatever.
At the time, I always assumed that this was some kind of strange curse that I had. I was afraid of women, and didn't know what to say to them, and I was ALONE.
In other words, I not only felt like I had a SERIOUS insecurity issue and fear, but even WORSE, I didn't feel like I could TELL anyone about it... or get help.
I felt like a dork if I even MENTIONED the topic to other guys... as if even talking about it made it clear that I was a loser who didn't even deserve an answer.
So here I was, over and over again, in situations where I would see women I wanted to meet... but I just didn't know what to do.
And I didn't know what would happen if I DID do something. I was afraid of the unknown.
Eventually, this led me to believe that there was probably something wrong with ME - that I should just accept and deal with it... and that I'd probably wind up either alone or having to settle for a relationship with a woman that I wasn't attracted to.
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