Hey Guys--

Ever met someone who thought they were the most moral and ethical
person in the world and never missed an opportunity to remind you
of that?

Kind of annoying, huh?  Especially when you start to examine their
behavior and discover what they call "ethics and morals"
conveniently explains away their bad behavior.

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If you want to be a man who not only attracts women, but keeps
them, your words and behaviors have got to match up.  Incongruity
is always an attraction killer.

Incongruity is caused when there's a gap between words and
behavior, and the wider the gap, the more the incongruity
(politicians, especially those advocating higher taxes while
cheating the tax man themselves, are the perfect example of this).

What you want to do is to make sure there's a minimal gap, a gap
you're always striving to close.  No one is going to be perfect
100% of the time--but those who strive to be are much more congruent
than those who don't.

Women take notice of men who do their best to make their deeds and
words match.  Most men don't- in fact they do the opposite, running
their mouths, talking up their own superiority and making promises
they can't possibly keep.

What happens is, women quickly notice words and behavior don't
match, and they're disappointed yet again.  But when she meets a
man whose words and behavior match closely, it's a different
story--she recognizes him as rare, and is more prone to sticking
around.

Now, notice I said words and behavior must match, not that you have
to promise the moon, then deliver it.  If most men simply dialed
down their talk and proclamations, limiting it to what they really
can deliver and who they really a re, warts and all, they'd
instantly become more attractive to women.

Sure, you should strive to make yourself into an honorable man, and
you should strive to achieve things--but let your actions speak for
you.  Women will notice without you saying a thing, and in this
case, silence speaks louder than words.

Let other, lesser men babble on while you go about your business
quietly, syncing up your words and deeds while they wonder why you
attract so many women and they don't.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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