Understand why women do the things they do.
When you understand "evolutionary psychology" then you understand why women do the things that they do. How they react, think, and respond to various events, words, and men. You'll also understand "hard to get" behaviors and how to eliminate them- so the women who are "hard" for most men to get, will be "easy" for you. This is fascinating: http://www.elitematelove.com ******
Hey Guys,
Ever had a choad try to interrupt a conversation you were having with a woman? I've had it happen several times, and it drives me crazy.
How should you deal with it? Read the email below and my response... you'll discover the right way to lock up a choad, and create attraction at the same time.
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Hi John,
As an older guy in his mid-50's still fairly athletic (still teaching martial arts) I sat down to chat with a younger lady... got a couple of sentences going and it looked promising ... and out of nowhere two younger guys elbowed their way in to the discussion.
I was floored by their effrontery (an alpha-male wannabe and ... with a wingman in tow ) but I let them go on... to see what would happen and what they actually used for their chat up content... was disappointed with their trivia...but was even more disappointed in myself that I didn't feel I had the skill to perhaps qualify the lady in question in the first place and making myself so vulnerable emotionally, besides appearing to withdraw meekly from the discussion without raising a protest at their rudeness.
My response I think was inadequate ...even if only in the sense that it will only encourage that type of person to continue in that type of obnoxious behaviour until they run into someone who wont put up with it.
The lady in question was initially very pleasantly polite to me tolerantly polite to them ... my 'observational torment' was alleviated when she was rescued from the unsuing puerile discussion on arrival by her friends....
Having recently been separated after nearly 30 years I think I have been out of circulation for far too long and feel I left it too late that I now feel like a babe in the woods... where I have to start all over again... where do I start if it is possible?......
Dan
JA: Thanks for the email, Dan. I, myself, have run into the situation you describe, and believe it or not, it's actually an opportunity for you to create attraction if handled correctly.
The thing to do is this: when any guy is rude enough to interrupt your conversation with a woman, all you have to do say, "Hey, fellas, we're having a private conversation here--we can talk later." Then turn your back to them.
Don't be rude--just say it in a firm, authoritative manner, with the expectation they will go away. They almost always do--and her reaction will be unbelievable. She'll see you display authority and prevent her from dealing with an unpleasant situation, and this always creates attraction.
As far as where you start, I highly recommend getting my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System, studying it diligently, and then implementing it.
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What you will discover is, attraction is a learnable skill, and you can learn it no matter your looks, age or income. There are tons of younger women who are very much attracted to men your age who have personal authority, and are dying to meet such a man.
They can't stand today's posers and wanna-be's--give them what they want, and they'll give you what you want.
****** When you understand "evolutionary psychology" then you understand why women do the things that they do. How they react, think, and respond to various events, words, and men. You'll also understand "hard to get" behaviors and how to eliminate them- so the women who are "hard" for most men to get, will be "easy" for you. This is fascinating: http://www.elitematelove.com ******
On with the fun...
-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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