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OK, now that you've heard a little bit more of
my personal perspective, I'd like you to look back
into your life and think about all those
situations with men that made no sense at all...
Think about the men that you treated
wonderfully that passed you up and went on to the
"bitchy" woman... and think about all the male
"friends" you've had... the ones who told you they
wanted a "nice girl"... but kept dating the same
kind of neurotic "bad girl" who didn't have her
life together AT ALL.
Is it all making sense now?
THEY DIDN'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU!
YOU WERE BEING THE "SUPER-FRIEND", AND YOU HAD
NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVING THE EXACT OPPOSITE
EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! AND WORSE YET, THERE
WASN'T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DO ABOUT IT!
It's harsh to think about, but it's true. (By
the way, if you don't do something to learn how to
make men feel ATTRACTION, and not just physical
attraction which won't last, then most likely,
this is going to keep happening to you for the
rest of your life.)
I have to point out one more thing. As I
mentioned earlier, I think a lot of women confuse
the idea of being "attractive" with the emotion
called ATTRACTION.
You can make a man feel an INCREDIBLE
ATTRACTION, even though you're not what most
people would think of as "attractive".
But, of course, you have to know HOW...
The point is, that if you're not perfectly
thin, "done-up" and "flawless" (and... who is!?),
you can LEARN how to make men feel this wonderful
emotion called ATTRACTION.
It's a skill. It's taken me YEARS to be able to
even talk about this stuff in simple terms like
this to make sense, and it's taken me the same
time to figure out how a REAL woman, without
giving herself away and wasting way too much of
her time and energy, can make a man who hasn't
seemed "ready" or "emotionally available", feel
ATTRACTION in a way that will lead to a deep and
lasting connection.
How, you ask, can this happen?
Well, you've read about avoiding the common and
destructive behavior of trying to CONVINCE a man
to feel any of these things "logically".
That's a part of it.
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