That's a small part of what NOT to do.

But there are several other pieces of the

puzzle, from voice tone and body language, to

secrets of powerful and "opening" communication,

to specific ways to respond and "challenge" a man

to get him physically and emotionally engaged, and

everything in between.

It's a system, and it all works together.

There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be

successful with men, dating and relationships:

1) The "Inner Stuff"

2) The "Outer Stuff"

The "Inner Stuff" is all about learning how to

THINK and how to manage your thoughts, intentions,

emotions and energy.

It's also about understanding how and why

attractive men feel that amazing emotion called

ATTRACTION for some women, and not others.

The "Outer Stuff" is all of the how-to's: what

to say, when, how and why.

Which is more important?

Well, they're BOTH important.

But what I notice is that most women just want

this whole "problem" of finding a great man and

arriving in a close, secure, loving, lasting

relationship, to go away.

They want to "arrive" into an unflinching love

where each person truly understands the other on a

deep, deep level.

But the strange part is that they want to learn

the "Outer Stuff" first because they believe that

it's just a matter of saying the right things so

that there's love and understanding.

In other words, they want the female versions

of "pick-up" lines.

Except, the end goal isn't sex - like it often

is for men with pick-up lines.

It's often wanting more of a deep, loving,

lasting commitment built over-night.

Which leads us to the "Inner Stuff".

The REASON that the "Inner Stuff" is so

important, is that attractive men don't judge you

on what you can say about true love and how much

you really want it in your life.

And just because a man talks to you, gets your

phone number or email address, or takes you out on

a date DOES NOT mean that he FEELS anything deep

inside.

And here's where I draw an IMPORTANT

distinction for you.

There are 2 types of ATTRACTION a man can feel.

And for a man to become "serious" about a

woman, he HAS to feel BOTH.

Men don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a

woman.

ATTRACTION is something that happens on its

own, for its own reasons.