Unfortunately, some women try all the things
they can think of that would work FOR THEM, and
try and make a man feel a certain way about them
inside.
Think back to the "convincing behaviors" I
listed earlier...
This is about as likely to work as trying to
"hypnotize" a man and programming his mind to fall
in love with you.
Well... maybe I shouldn't have given you that
idea... lol
I can see it now - there will be hundreds of
women out there swinging time pieces in front of
their emotionally unavailable men trying to put
them into a "suggestive state".
Ok, enough kidding around...
What I'm trying to say is that one day it hit
me like a ton of bricks that ATTRACTION IS THE KEY
TO EVERYTHING BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN.
If you don't know what it is or how to create
it, you'll wander around trying different
strategies (most of them based on what you think
would work for YOU) and probably never land on
something that works consistently.
Once I realized this "truth", all kinds of
things that didn't make sense before INSTANTLY
made sense to me.
All of a sudden I realized why women dated
egotistical selfish jerks... ATTRACTION.
All of a sudden I realized why men dated
neurotic and "bitchy" women... ATTRACTION.
And I also saw the FLIP SIDE!
I realized why men pass up women who are
honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful.
And instead, went for women who had much, much
less to offer... ALL because of ATTRACTION.
Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which it
really is). If a man is under the influence of it,
then he's gone. He'll do anything to get more.
If he's NOT under the influence, then YOU'RE
gone. Nothing you do will matter if he doesn't
feel it.
If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10
SUPER HOT men you see what they think of this.
Read this newsletter to them, and watch their
reactions. You'll see.
OK, now that you've heard a little bit more of
my personal perspective, I'd like you to look back
into your life and think about all those
situations with men that made no sense at all...
Think about the men that you treated
wonderfully that passed you up and went on to the
"bitchy" woman... and think about all the male
"friends" you've had... the ones who told you they
wanted a "nice girl"... but kept dating the same
kind of neurotic "bad girl" who didn't have her
life together AT ALL.
Is it all making sense now?
THEY DIDN'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU!
YOU WERE BEING THE "SUPER-FRIEND", AND YOU HAD
NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVING THE EXACT OPPOSITE
EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! AND WORSE YET, THERE
WASN'T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DO ABOUT IT!
It's harsh to think about, but it's true. (By
the way, if you don't do something to learn how to
make men feel ATTRACTION, and not just physical
attraction which won't last, then most likely,
this is going to keep happening to you for the
rest of your life.)
I have to point out one more thing. As I
mentioned earlier, I think a lot of women confuse
the idea of being "attractive" with the emotion
called ATTRACTION.
You can make a man feel an INCREDIBLE
ATTRACTION, even though you're not what most
people would think of as "attractive".
But, of course, you have to know HOW...
The point is, that if you're not perfectly
thin, "done-up" and "flawless" (and... who is!?),
you can LEARN how to make men feel this wonderful
emotion called ATTRACTION.
It's a skill. It's taken me YEARS to be able to
even talk about this stuff in simple terms like
this to make sense, and it's taken me the same
time to figure out how a REAL woman, without
giving herself away and wasting way too much of
her time and energy, can make a man who hasn't
seemed "ready" or "emotionally available", feel
ATTRACTION in a way that will lead to a deep and
lasting connection.
How, you ask, can this happen?
Well, you've read about avoiding the common and
destructive behavior of trying to CONVINCE a man
to feel any of these things "logically".
That's a part of it.
That's a small part of what NOT to do.
But there are several other pieces of the
puzzle, from voice tone and body language, to
secrets of powerful and "opening" communication,
to specific ways to respond and "challenge" a man
to get him physically and emotionally engaged, and
everything in between.
It's a system, and it all works together.
There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be
successful with men, dating and relationships:
1) The "Inner Stuff"
2) The "Outer Stuff"
The "Inner Stuff" is all about learning how to
THINK and how to manage your thoughts, intentions,
emotions and energy.
It's also about understanding how and why
attractive men feel that amazing emotion called
ATTRACTION for some women, and not others.
The "Outer Stuff" is all of the how-to's: what
to say, when, how and why.
Which is more important?
Well, they're BOTH important.
But what I notice is that most women just want
this whole "problem" of finding a great man and
arriving in a close, secure, loving, lasting
relationship, to go away.
They want to "arrive" into an unflinching love
where each person truly understands the other on a
deep, deep level.
But the strange part is that they want to learn
the "Outer Stuff" first because they believe that
it's just a matter of saying the right things so
that there's love and understanding.
In other words, they want the female versions
of "pick-up" lines.
Except, the end goal isn't sex - like it often
is for men with pick-up lines.
It's often wanting more of a deep, loving,
lasting commitment built over-night.
Which leads us to the "Inner Stuff".
The REASON that the "Inner Stuff" is so
important, is that attractive men don't judge you
on what you can say about true love and how much
you really want it in your life.
And just because a man talks to you, gets your
phone number or email address, or takes you out on
a date DOES NOT mean that he FEELS anything deep
inside.
And here's where I draw an IMPORTANT
distinction for you.
There are 2 types of ATTRACTION a man can feel.
And for a man to become "serious" about a
woman, he HAS to feel BOTH.
Men don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a
woman.
ATTRACTION is something that happens on its
own, for its own reasons.
Sure, it's relatively easy, in the grand scheme
of things, for a man to feel "PHYSICAL
ATTRACTION".
But having a man feel what I call "INTELLECTUAL
ATTRACTION", is a whole different story.
Remember when I mentioned earlier that there's
a reason why a man will commit himself emotionally
to one woman, and not another?
This "other" kind of attraction is a BIG part
of what's going on here.
The way to cause a man to feel ATTRACTION for
you is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, and
then communicate in a way that makes it happen.
In a way that actually triggers the FEELING of
ATTRACTION inside of a man on a deep emotional
level.
In my ebook, I spend several full sections
teaching the "Inner Stuff"... all those things
that help you get the INSIDE together, so you will
naturally pull the OUTSIDE (behavior and direct
communication) together.
Of course, I also pack in tons of specifics
about the "Outer Stuff" that men respond best to
and that REALLY WORKS.
This stuff is CRITICAL to the quality of your
future love life and relationships.
I wouldn't have taken all the time, effort, and
energy to put this together unless I thought it
was important.
If you want to overcome your challenges and
really take your love life to the next level, then
you owe it to yourself to check this out.
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