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Pretending that you're a nice, friendly guy who's only starting an innocent conversation is a direct express route to an evening of self touching.
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THE GOODS...
OK, so here are a few pointers when approaching:
1) It's OK To Ask Immediately...
It STILL amazes me that a woman will give her phone number and/or email address to a guy after only a minute or two of conversation... but it's true.
If you act cool about it, so will she.
Do this: After talking for a minute or two say, "I'm going to get back to my friends" (Or whatever you were doing), and then turn away from her and begin to leave.
If you're getting ready to actually LEAVE the place where you are (say you're at a bar, and you're getting ready to go home or go somewhere else), it's even BETTER.
In that case say, "We're going to leave... it was nice talking to you"... then turn away.
Now, just after you break eye contact and turn away, TURN BACK and say, "Hey!"
She'll look back up, and be surprised...
2) Start With Something "Low Risk"
...as she looks up ask, "Do you have email?" in a calm, normal tone of voice.
When she says "Yes" - you say, "Great, give it to me, I'd like to talk to you again."
Then pull out a pen, and hand it to her.
As she's writing down her email address, just as she writes the @ symbol (in other words, in the middle), say "...and write your number there too...."
Finally, tell her to write her name down as well.
Why do it this way?
Good question.
- At first you're asking, "Do you HAVE email?"
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