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This is a no-brainer. If she does (and most women do), she'll say, "Yes." You're just treating the "yes" as if she said, "Yes, I'll give it to you..." It's a smooth, easy way to ask a "low risk" question, and have a woman be the one to MOST likely give you her information.
- Email is considered "safe."
I mean, what are you going to do, send her 100 emails a day? Ooooohhh, scary.
- You're waiting until she's actually in the MIDDLE of writing down her email for you to ask her to also write her number down.
This makes it FAR more likely that she'll give you her number. At this point she's already demonstrating to you and her that she's OK with you contacting her again... and since she's ALREADY writing, she's very likely to just KEEP writing... her number.
3) The "Do You Have A Card" Variation
You can also ask, "Do you have a card?" if you choose.
This is a classy, low risk way to ask a woman for her contact information.
Now, a lot of women DO NOT have cards, so you're going to need th
e follow-up for when she says, "No, I don't have one on me"... such as "Well, invent one for me!"
This is funny, charming, and smooth.
Just take out a pen, and hand it to her.
She'll know what to do.
4) Be Ready
Probably half to two thirds of the time, a woman will just write down her email for you.
It's AMAZING how easily women will give out their email addresses.
But sometimes you'll meet with resistance.
I can't go into all of the millions of possible scenarios, but I will talk about the most COMMON one.
Probably a quarter of the time, a woman will say something like, "I don't give out my email to people I don't know" or "I don't even know you" etc.
This one used to REALLY stump me... until I found a simple solution...
Here it is: Just point to the paper, and say "Write it down."
If she keeps resisting, make a joke.
Say, "It's OK, just write it down. I'll only email you every five minutes for the next month."
The SIMPLE "Write it down" works wonders.
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