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You'll probably overcome HALF of the "I don't
give out my email/number" comments with this one
simple answer. Use it.

5) Mentally Rehearse

One of the greatest investments you can make in
yourself is MENTAL REHEARSAL.

Take some time to imagine exactly what it's
going to be like when you ask a woman for her
email/number.

Close your eyes, and picture a situation.

Imagine how you're going to be standing, what
you're going to say, what she's going to say, how
you're going to take out the pen and hand it to
her, how you're going to answer any objections
that she gives you.

Don't wait until you're in the situation to
realize that you don't know how to handle
something!

You'll realize all kinds of great stuff when
you mentally rehearse.

You'll be vividly imagining a great
conversation, then you'll get to the part where
you ask, "Do you have email?" and she says, "Yes"
and you say, "Great, give it to me, I'd like to
talk to you again..." and as you mentally put your
hand in your pocket you'll realize that you don't
usually carry a pen with you!

Or you'll realize that you don't carry paper
with you.

Or you'll realize that your pen is usually in
your jacket, which is usually on the back of your
chair, and not with you at the bar.

When you mentally rehearse, you program
yourself for success. So just DO IT!

6) Don't Sell Too Far In Advance

This is SUCH an important concept. Maybe even
the most important thing I'm going to say.

When you're getting a woman's email and number,
DO NOT try to convince her to marry you on the
spot!

Don't "ask her out."

Don't tell her that your mom is going to love
her.

Don't ask typical stupid questions like, "Do
you have a boyfriend"... and make it seem like
you're qualifying her for marriage.

No, no, nooooo!

As a matter of fact, the ONLY thing you want to
do is get her information.

Many guys make the mistake of talking about
going out on a date, being interested, etc. or
tipping the woman off in some way that he's VERY
interested in her.




 

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