How to keep her attracted to you

Hey guys,

Sometimes attraction can be complex.  But sometimes it can actually
be really simple, so simple it's over looked.

There are actually two parts to attraction:  creating initial
attraction, and sustaining it.  If you want to have long term
relationships with women, you obviously have to master both.

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One of the most powerful techniques to sustaining attraction is to
continually do the unexpected.  It doesn't have to be
earth-shatter, just unexpected.

This is important for two reasons.  First off, it shows the woman
in your life that you do think about her, value her, AND you
actively work on creating the environment for her to be happy.

That's very attractive.

But the second reason is less obvious.  When you do the unexpected,
it prevents boredom and monotony from setting in.  Getting into a
rut, a rinse, wash, repeat lifestyle is one of the reasons why
relationships go bad.  Boredom IS a deadly attraction killer.

Doing the unexpected on a consistent basis is a defense against
boredom.  And it's not that difficult to do.

It could be saying something different to her.  Bringing her a
small, unexpected gift.  Going somewhere unexpected.  The truth is,
it doesn't really matter--but the results do.

Not only do you fight boredom and let her know you value her, you
also show authority by leading within the relationship, something
most men don't do.

So, do the unexpected.  Then you can expect a happy, fulfilling
relationship.

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"


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