Emulate the successful trader when it comes to women
Hey Guys--
I just returned from a very interesting seminar on trading (stock market, options, commodities, etc.) put on by two fellow marketers who do very well practicing what they teach.
However, the most interesting part of the event was not the mechanics of trading--it was the psychology.
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Trading is all about probabilities, and making trades only when the odds are in your favor. But that does not mean you will make money on every trade. In fact, you will often lose money, and most traders are not comfortable with that.
They look at each trade individually, not as a data point in a long series of trades, and many take it very hard when they lose money on a trade. They question themselves and their analysis, and oftentimes are too emotional to execute the next trade.
Hmmm, sound familiar in another area?
Yep, when it comes to attraction most guys do the same thing. They get some really good tools to learn the skill. They think they should succeed every time. They see the perfect opportunity to attract a beautiful woman, they say and do all the right things and... she's not interested.
They're crushed. Devastated. They question themselves. They avoid talking to another woman, wondering what went wrong.
What did go wrong? The answer is simple: nothing. Not a damn thing. You see, no matter how good you are, no matter how attractive you are, many women are not going to be interested. It has nothing to do with you. They're just not--it's the way of the world.
The difference between the successful trader and the trader who fails is the successful trader focuses on successful execution of the trade. He knows at times he will lose money and this does not bother him in the least. He knows at times he will also make money, and this does not excite him in the least. The only thing that excites him is successfully executing his system each and every time, devoid of emotion. The same thing pretty much applies to the man who is successful with women, although when he is successful he is emotional (you cannot and should not take the emotional component out of interacting with women).
If he does not attract a woman he's interested in, it has no effect on him--it's happened to him many, many times before and will again. It's just reality. He easily moves onto the next "setup" knowing he will eventually be successful.
Emulate the successful trader when it comes to women, and avoid the habits of the trader who fails--you will soon be a very successful man when it comes to women.
On with the fun,
-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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