Make her like you first.

Hey Guys--

Every guy has experienced it.  You come across a woman you think is
really cool.  You start to "like her."  You wonder if she likes you
back.

So you start looking for signs, any sign.  Maybe she smiles at you.
Maybe she touches you.  Maybe she accepts you as a friend on
Facebook.

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And because you're looking for signs, when you get one you feel a
sudden thrill of exhilaration and relief.  You like her, she likes
you, things will soon happen... right?

Of course not.  Often what happens in this situation is, she meets
you, senses you "like her," she's friendly back, but she's not
attracted.  And then, when you "make your move" she says you're
"kind and sweet" but "let's just be friends."

Kinda sucks, huh?

Here's the truth:  if you decide you "like" a woman (i.e. you have
a crush on her, think  your life would be complete if you "had
her") then you immediately put yourself in a state of desperation...
and desperation is the ultimate killer of attraction.

You start looking for little signs that she likes you...hoping,
praying for one, and you go from exhilaration to despondency and
back based on tiny, meaningless "signs."

If you want to attract women, you must disconnect yourself from
"liking" them, from developing crushes.  Once there is a real,
prove attraction there, you will have plenty of time to like her,
but until that develops you cannot allow yourself to like a woman.

Instead, you want HER to like YOU.  And the way you do this is by
focusing on the process of attraction, being naughty, funny,
playful, and not caring about the outcome.

When you do this, women sense you are unlike other men.  You're not
desperate, you're different, and all women want to meet a
"different man."

So, disconnect yourself from desperation. Stop liking women before
it's time to like them.  Focus on the attraction process and soon
enough, you will have plenty of women who "like" you.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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