Should you quit or stay?

Hey Guys--

Some of you reading this may actually remember the time when the
term "quitter" was a derogatory one.  It was the last thing you
wanted to be hung with at school, and quitters were roundly derided.

But that was a long time ago.  In this day and age, quitting is
celebrated, as evidenced by the huge swell of support for the
quitter Steven Slater, the flight attendant who threw a tantrum and
quit his job because he got a boo-boo on the head from a rude woman.

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I personally have no tolerance for quitters.  None.  I can't stand.
Never have, never will--and guess what?  Women can't stand them
either.

What is quitting?  It's giving up when you have the mental and
physical ability to succeed in a difficult situation, but not the
fortitude.

Staying in a "prohibitive situation" (a situation where you have no
chance of success) is stupid and stubborn.  It's not quitting, it's
a smart move.  But quitting something you could have succeeded at
because the mental and physical pain associated with it is severe,
is one of the worst things you can do.

Anything worth doing is going to cause you some pain, and the man
who can tolerate that pain while acting in spite of it is the man
who is successful.  That used to be celebrated.

But in this day and age of the girlie man, quitting has become
cool.  Pain is to avoided at all costs, as are negative emotions.
At least that's the prevailing mindset in this brave new world of
entitlement.

You cannot, however, change the laws of physics, and the only thing
sheltering people--or yourself--from pain and duress does is set you
up for massive pain later on, pain you don't have the tools to deal
with.

So, when you make it a point to push through, to endure the pain
and duress, to sacrifice for the purpose of achieving a worthy
goal, you develop a mental skill set for setting aside pain, for
performing when others quit.

And, no matter how cool the girlie men try to make quitting, the
real world reality is that the man who refuses to quit will always
be successful.  It may be a trite saying, an echo from the past,
but it is still true and always will be, no matter how unpopular,
or un-cool it becomes:

"Winners never quit, and quitters never win."

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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