Improve your attraction skills

Hey Guys--

It happens every year.  The first game of the NFL season comes and
goes, and 16 teams feel they're going 0-16 and the other 16 feel
like they're going undefeated--at least if you listen to fans and
squealers in the sports media.

The Texans have found the next great hall of game running back,
Mike Shanahan's genius has turned around the Redskins, the Cowboys
are the most overrated team ever to play the game and so on and so
forth.

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What does it all mean?

Nothing.  Not a damn thing. And you can't pay any attention to it.
After all, as Bill Parcells loves to remind people in this day and
age of instant analysis, "you don't know anything until
Thanksgiving."

But in this day and age of instant analyzers, people DO make
decisions based on single data points.  Not only that, but it's a
trend that's increasing.

Like anything else, that leads to opportunity.  The man who is
calm, cool, patient, and lets things play out before acting has an
incredible advantage over the panicky fool who changes his mind
every minute based on the latest blog update.

This happens more and more in the realm of attraction.  A guy meets
a woman, it goes great, and he's planning their wedding . Or he
meets a woman, it doesn't go so well and he thinks he'll never meet
another woman ever again.

Both are as meaningless as evaluating the NFL after opening day,
and if you wish to be a man who's successful with women, you must
recognize this.

A big secret to being successful in attraction is the ability to
shut out the results of single data points, and focus on improving
your attraction skills.  If you do that, you will have success in
the long term, with short term fluctuations along the way.

So, let the girlie men and the squealers panic over their instant
analysis.  You stay focused on the task at hand, and you'll be the
man who gets the results other, lesser men are always chasing.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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