Play the chemistry card

Hey Guys--

For reasons that escape me, a lot of guys like to lie.  Or fudge.
Or just plain bullshit.  For some reason they think it makes them
more attractive to women.

They boast about money they don't make.  People they don't know.
And things they've never done... and are shocked when she finds out
about it and is pissed.

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Lookit, the truth is this:  a woman really doesn't care about all
that.  What she cares about is how she feels when she's around you.
If she feels chemistry, she's happy and wants to be with you.  If
she doesn't, she has no interest.

Chemistry does not happen because you have a lot of money.  Or know
famous people.  Or travel to odd parts of the world.  I know guys
who do all of that, but couldn't get a second date with to save
their lives.

On the flip side, I know guys who sit around the house, watch
football, scratch their butts, and have women falling all over
them.  Why?  Because by their behavior with each woman, they know
how to make her feel chemistry.

Obviously you want to have the best of both worlds--really having
money is great, really knowing cool people is great, and really
traveling to interesting places is great too.  And if you really do
that, then by all means women love to hear about it.

But if you don't (or a better way to think is you haven't yet, but
will sometime in the future), there's no need to bullshit a woman.
It won't create any chemistry, but it darn sure will kill it.

All women have been bs'ed before by men--more than one.  They have
no respect for men who are professional bullshitters, and are on
the lookout for them.  No good ever comes from hanging out with a
bullshitter.

But you don't have to be one to attract women.  All you have to do
is be naughty, funny and playful with a strong sense of personal
authority, and she'll feel chemistry with you... no bs at all is
required.

Let other, lesser men play the bullshit card.  It will always,
always come back to bite them.  Play the chemistry card, and all
the bullshitters will wonder why a No BS guy like you attracts
women and they don't.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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