Keep working towards your final goal.

Hey Guys--

Yesterday the Dallas Cowboys finally got off their butts and played
a pretty decent football game, walking out of Houston with a much
needed victory.

Did that turn their season around, putting them squarely on track
for the Superbowl?

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Of course not.  The coaching and discipline issues that have
plagued them still exist, and all it means is that they're 1-2
instead of 0-3. In other words, time to get back to work--better to
be 1-2 certainly, but lose the next game and you're 1-3.  They've
got to keep an even keel.

Same thing applies to attraction--too many men celebrate a "victory"
thinking it guarantees them future success and wind up shocked when
it doesn't.

Getting too excited about a small step in attraction is just as bad
as being devastated over a setback.  All both of them mean is that
you have to go back to work.

Many, many guys have something good happen with a woman... they get a
phone... or a date... and they think they can relax, and that things
will automatically work out because she "likes you."  But it
doesn't work that way.

If you get too caught up in the excitement of a small victory, and
fail to pay attention to the next step, you'll suddenly be
wondering why your calls are unreturned and that promised second
date doesn't materialize.  You have got to stay focused.

Remember, you have an ultimate goal when it comes to women
(different for each man), and you succeed when you achieve that
goal.  Getting too excited about small steps on the path to that
goal can actually derail you.

So, keep an even keel when it comes to attraction.  Don't get
overly excited about a victory, or concerned about a setback.  Just
keep working towards your final goal.

It is, after all, a long season.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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