Start with fun and end with more fun.
Hey Guys--
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No wonder most of these guys couldn't get a date on an island full of lonely women and no other men... they have very little real world experience with women.
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Here's the truth: women want a fun guy. If you're boring, weird, or nicey-nice when you meet a woman, she's not going to spend time with you.
Think about it--what do women say to their friends when they meet a guy they really like? He's sooooo serious? Of course not--they say "he's so much fun."
A lot of guys get too caught up in learning the skill of attraction, and by doing so turn it into a mechanical process where they are so fixated on the outcome they forget to have fun... and if you're not having fun, she's not.
Now, part of the process of having fun is the ability to get her to laugh in spite of herself, gradually layering in innuendo so the interaction IS about attraction. Without that, she's not going to have much fun even if you go to Six Flags for a day.
But when you do this, and when you get good at it, you really start to have a lot of fun, and that starts a cycle of attraction. The more fun you have, the more she does, and the attraction grows.
Having fun is an important part of the natural attraction process... if you don't do it, she's not going to be attracted to you. No woman wants a boring or predictable guy... they want a fun one.
If you start with fun, you'll end with more fun... that's the best way to think about it.
-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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