How technology can help you get the woman of your dreams
In this video I discuss the true "secrets" to meeting a woman and establishing strong, burning attraction. If you're serious about meeting women or that quality woman- then you better watch this.... Otherwise you can't complain. Watch it now: http://www.elitematelove.com ******
Hey Guys,
There are numerous studies out now proving that constant interruption via email, text, smartphones, internet, etc. makes you dumber.
Literally.
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Why? Because constant interruptions deprive you of the ability to focus, and focus is important if you wish to succeed.
When you're online, surfing the web, you are constantly interrupted. You are interrupted by Facebook updates, by Twitter, by email, by toolbars flashing a new story and on and on and on.
When you click on something new, you start it, and suddenly you're interrupted again. And again. All of sudden you start to feel slower, think less clearly.
This is not good for attraction. If you want to master the skill of attraction, you have to focus on the woman in front of you for an extended period of time. If you can't, you'll miss important cues.
Moreover, you have to be sure she's not being interrupted. That's why you want to turn off all cell phones, internet, etc. when you're spending time with her, else you will be interrupted.
Attraction has a certain timing and rhythm to it, and interruptions can kill that, especially if it's a phone call from a whiny female friend. So when you're out, insist on turning off all cell phones and other interruptions.
But even when you're home alone you should do this. Limit the time you spend online, and get off. I literally unplug the internet when I work, getting back on when need be, and getting back off before it sucks me in.
When I do this I find I think faster, think more clearly, and think more deeply. Your brain really doesn't begin to heat up until you've focused on something for 20 minutes or so, and you'll never get there online.
Also, when you're done working or even farting around on the web, go deep read a real book with no interruptions. This keeps your brain focused in a way reading on the internet never will.
Technology is all well and good when used properly--and disconnecting promptly from it is a proper use.
****** In this video I discuss the true "secrets" to meeting a woman and establishing strong, burning attraction. If you're serious about meeting women or that quality woman- then you better watch this.... Otherwise you can't complain. Watch it now: http://www.elitematelove.com ******
On with the fun...
-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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