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Written by John Alanis   

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Hey Guys,

Ever watch the show "Who the Bleep Did I Marry?"  It's a great
show, worth watching by any man interested in attraction.

It's a show about people who got married believing one thing about
the person, only to find out they're really someone much different.

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The show usually tells the story of a woman who got married quickly
to a man she met who said and did all the right things at the right
time.  Then, once he's married, he uses her, abusing her trust and
feelings for her.

The episode I watched the other night involved a cad who was
married to 7 women at the same time, getting each one to pay his
bills while he was living with the others.

It's a classic case of if you're going to lie, lie big, and did
this guy ever tell some whoppers. He claimed he was in the Navy (he
had been, sadly, many years prior), and that he had to leave for
deployment in Iraq.

He would call his wives late at night when they were asleep,
pretending he was calling them from a combat zone so he couldn't
sleep long. They'd continue to pay his bills while he was living
with another one.

Now, his MO to get them in the first place bears studying.  He
would target previously divorced, unattractive women who were at a
low point.  He'd swoop into their lives, and tell them the things
they desperately wanted to hear.  In short order, he'd propose, and
they'd marry him.  And then he'd start to take advantage of them.

This guy was, obviously, a royal turd--and he did get busted for
bigamy in Oregon, and served a whopping 10 days in jail (my opinion
is he should have been ruled clinically insane for marrying 7 women
in the first place, but that's neither here nor there).

But what was most interesting was what all the women said in their
exit interviews:  "I got married to him because I loved him."  That
feeling of "love" this guy discovered he could create in women in
short order completely blinded them to the obvious reality that
this guy was a turd.

Moreover, they hung on so long, even when confronted with
overwhelming evidence because they just didn't want to believe the
unthinkable...and it cost them.

The lesson here, for all you good guys, is this:  be very careful
what you say to a woman who's attracted to you.  When you say
things in the moment you don't really mean in the long term, it can
create deep and powerful feelings that bring on the heartbreak when
forever really meant "a few days."

If you want fun in the moment, plenty of women are up for that.  If
you want a lasting relationship, best to let it grow slowly over
time so you have a strong foundation, and you both know who each
other really are.  There will be plenty of time for the "I love
you's" then...and you'll both know they're real.

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Tired of being lonely?
Tired of going to bed... alone?
Desire a woman by your side, each night?
If so, then I highly advice that you take a look at this:
http://elitematelove.com
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On with the fun...

 


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

 

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