Be the man who knows how to handle his fear
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Any time you do something new or outside you're comfort zone, you're going to feel fear. And the more you have to lose, the more you're going to feel.
This knowledge prevents many men from acting because they feel they won't be successful until they can act without fear.
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But what the successful man knows and understands is you can never act without fear, you can only act alongside it.
Yes, as you get more comfortable with what it is you're trying to accomplish, the fear diminishes, yet it never goes away. It's always there.
As I've said many times, women can sense what a man is feeling inside. And if you're nervous and afraid, she can feel that and it kills attraction.
What you have to learn to do is manage your fear, to push it down to the point where you know it's there, but others can't feel it. If you let it consume and overtake you, the fear will spread to others.
Anyone who's led men will know how important it is for the leader to maintain an air of calmness and coolness at all times around his men, even if he's afraid inside.
Fear is like a contagion, and it will spread to others around you if you let it control you. When fear spreads, panic sets in, and people start to act without regard or thought for the consequences.
When you start learning the skill of attraction, you will be fearful. And one of the fundamental things you need to do is manage that fear, to control it, so the women you're interacting with don't pick up on it.
Women admire a man who can control and manage his fear. They do not admire or respect a man who panics, a man who lets fear get the better of him.
You will always be afraid to some degree when you do something that involves potential loss. What will determine how successful you'll be is how you manage that fear...do you keep it to yourself, or do you let it spread to others?
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On with the fun...
-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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