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I am not a smoker. I've never put a cigarette to my lips, never smoked a joint, and I'll die without ever having done either of those.
Once, sometimes, twice a week, however, I enjoy a very good cigar.
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Now, I'm not talking a Swisher Sweet or anything you can get at Wal Mart late at night. I'm talking about the good ones, the Arturo Fuenta Gran Reserva, the Rocky Patel Decades, the Macanudos, and even Kinky Friedman's cigars.
While I do not have a stressful life compared to other people, I am easily aggravated when things don't go precisely my way, meaning I'm constantly aggravated.
When you're aggravated, it's hard to think clearly because aggravation focuses your mind on small details that usually don't matter.
The way to get past it, of course, is to handle the details and move on, and I generally do that. Sometimes, however, I'm still aggravated afterwards.
When that happens, I take a cigar break. A fine cigar usually takes an hour to an hour and a half to smoke, meaning you have to sit still for that long, something I'm not good at.
So, I turn off all the lights, turn off all the distractions, sit on my balcony, enjoy my view and slowly smoke my cigar.
For the first 20 minutes, I find myself still aggravated. The cigar doesn't seem to taste as good as it should, I seem to be wasting time by sitting around, and relaxation is just not happening.
Then a funny thing happens. Suddenly the tension releases, much like a tight muscle you've been stretching out. I feel mellow, relaxed, my mind is uncluttered, and the aggravation passes.
I start to think clearly, and I start to get ideas, ideas that lead to solutions to the problems that have been causing me aggravation in the first place. Because there are no inputs, only outputs, there is nothing to aggravate me and I can finally relax.
I have gotten some really good ideas while smoking a fine cigar and forcing myself to relax. You might try it yourself and get the same result. Or even if you're not yet a "cigar man" find a similar way to shut off all inputs for an hour or so.
Your life will be better for it.
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