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Hey Guys,
Awhile back I was talking to a female friend of mine, one who goes on many dates with men she met online.
As you might imagine, most of these go sideways from the beginning, and hilarity ensues, at least after she escapes.
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She told me about a date she had where, ten minutes into the date, the dude looked her right in the eye and told her he loved her.
Not an hour, not 30 minutes, not even 15 minutes, but ten minutes. Hell, that's not even enough time for hot coffee to get cool enough to drink.
Then, to add insult to injury, he went home and wrote he a very lengthy, very emotional email telling her that he was, indeed, very sincere in his feelings.
C'mon, man.
If you want to turn a woman off, tearfully confess your feelings for her, especially when there's been no indication on her part she even likes you. If you want to turn her off forever, do it within ten minutes of meeting her.
It's creepy, it's weird, and it's pathetic. It may work in chick flicks, but not in real life. It's also a display of laziness, revealing the guy is not willing to do the hard work of creating attraction-and women do not like lazy men.
"Confessing your feelings" really is an attempt at manipulation, trying to get something for saying a few simple words. Women see right through it, and immediately disrespect you as a man.
Lookit, if you spend time with a woman and decide you like her and want a lasting relationship with her, then it's your job to create such a powerful feeling of attraction in her so, that, over time she falls for you.
Eventually she'll want to "have the talk" and if, at that time, you feel the same way, then you can very reluctantly let her pry the feelings out of you, as all women want to.
That way she'll know you're sincere and not just another bullshit artist looking for ten minutes to love.
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On with the fun...
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