Finding it too easy and obvious
It's Friday and soon the weekend will be here. Tonight, and the again tomorrow night, you might find yourself out on the town, getting together with friends, and possibly in a bar. Now, women are everywhere and many times they're in bars. But should you talk to women in bars? And how can you separate yourself from all of the other men in that bar? I've made a free video for you and it discusses just that. Watch this free video:
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Hey Guys,
When I am out of town for an event, I always like to stop and Starbucks and get an exceedingly large cup of coffee. It's better than anything I'll get at the hotel, it's consistent, and it makes me happy in the morning.
I am, currently, at an event in Phoenix, staying at a hotel other than the event hotel (for no good reason). I have managed to find a Starbucks close to the event hotel, so that is good.
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On the way back to my hotel yesterday, I decided I wanted another cup of Starbucks, but got distracted and was halfway back before I realized I'd missed the turn.
No worries, those things are everywhere, right? (Yes, I know there's an app for that, but I refuse to use those things, for no good reason).
I figured if I kept my eyes peeled, I'd see one, especially if I drove through a few shopping centers. But no dice. Couldn't find one, so I decided to go back to my hotel and find one later.
Wouldn't you know it, when I pulled out of the hotel later on, I looked to my left and saw... a Starbucks. Within walking distance. The damn thing was hidden in plain sight all along, and I must have driven past it 8 times.
Why did I miss it? Because it was too easy and too obvious. My mind blanked it out, and I missed it. Damn.
Many people miss things that are hidden in plain sight because they don't want to believe that things that appear to be difficult can be really easy. Take, for example, the problem men have with meeting women.
They can't find any good ones, and don't know where to go. Yet they spend their day at an office, at the gym, at a restaurant, at the grocery store and everywhere else there are women. Yet they don't "see" them.
Being successful means training yourself to see obvious opportunity in addition to hidden opportunity. Don't overlook something that is right in front of you. The woman you really want to meet might just be working out next to you at the gym...and all you have to do is talk to her.
And yes, today, I will have my coffee from my newly discovered Starbucks.
****** It's Friday and soon the weekend will be here. Tonight, and the again tomorrow night, you might find yourself out on the town, getting together with friends, and possibly in a bar. Now, women are everywhere and many times they're in bars. But should you talk to women in bars? And how can you separate yourself from all of the other men in that bar? I've made a free video for you and it discusses just that. Watch this free video:
http://elitematelove.com ******
On with the fun...
-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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