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Letting the chain goes on
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Hey Guys,
I recently received an email from a man saying that while he was
good at meeting women, creating initial attraction, and getting a
date, he was a disaster on the date itself.
For some reason, he never got a second date, and hopped around to a
bunch of first dates. It was driving him crazy, and he wanted to
know the answer.
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The first thing to realize is, of course, that attraction is a
process. He had mastered some very important parts of the process,
but was falling down on one link in the chain.
While I can't diagnose his specific problem without actual, in
person evaluation, there are some very common mistakes made on
first dates that kill attraction, and odds are he's making one of
them.
The first thing you need to understand is that all of your
communication is linked. In other words, what you do when you
approach a woman, set up a second meeting, and communicate with her
in the interim all has an effect on that meeting.
What you want to have happen is for her brain to go to work,
anticipating your next meeting. If you position it as a
traditional "date" then she usually starts thinking about all the
bad dates she's had, and odds her you are her next bad date.
You want to come across as different, as vague, as to whether it's
a date or not. The term "get together" or "let's meet up" is vague
enough to where she wonders if it's a date or not. That builds
anticipation, leading to attraction.
The second problem is many men just aren't attractive on a date.
Her anticipation turns to disappointment because she was expecting
one thing, and got another.
Too many men make the mistake that because a woman agrees to a date
with you, that attraction is guaranteed. It's not. In fact, it's
holding on by a foothold, and the next meeting needs to reinforce
it.
That's where all your attraction skills come into play. You want
the next meeting to be "different," so she feels chemistry, a
continuation of the initial spark she felt with you. Most men
relax on a "date" figuring she's attracted to them. Not so. All
it is, is an opportunity for attraction, not a guaranteed outcome.
But if you focus on being, fun, playful, vague, naughty, funny, and
authoritative, you will have plenty of second dates... and more.
And, if you need some more help on this all important topic, check
out this short video I shot on the subject:
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Do you feel that the internet just isn't the place for meeting
women? Well, consider this:
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On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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User: ice_girl, Texas
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