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Written by John Alanis   

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Ever met a guy who seemed really cool at first, but then you saw
him everywhere?  And maybe he was still cool, but every time you
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Then maybe you knew a guy who was really cool, but you had no idea
where you'd see him.  Sometimes you'd see him, sometimes you
wouldn't.  BUT...

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...what made him so cool was, everyone was talking about him whether
he was there or not.

They wondered what he was doing when he wasn't there.  And when he
showed up, they wondered what he'd been doing before.  And when he
suddenly took his leave, they wondered where he was off to.

And so his legend spread.  No one knew him well, but everyone felt
like they knew him.  He was a little mysterious, vague, and a lot
intriguing, much different than the guy who was always there.

If you want to know a secret about being attractive, learn that
one:  you become powerful and attractive by your absence.

Obviously you can't be absent all the time or no one will know who
you are.  And  you can't be absent so often that they'll forget
about you.  But in a social environment you want to be absent just
enough so people will hope you're going to show up.

It goes without saying that you have to be a cool, funny,
attractive guy to pull this off.  And it doesn't hurt to be "seen"
in other media.  When you are present, it's a good idea to have
lots of funny and interesting stories, stay for awhile and greet
everyone, talk to the women you're interested in (getting their
contact information) and leaving.

On occasion you want to stay and regale everyone with your stories.
But only occasionally.  Why?  Because you want people talking
about you in your absence, building you up into a legend in their
minds.

That way you can remain vague about what you're up to, and they'll
fill in the blanks. Women, especially are intrigued by men like
this, less so with the men who are always there.

So come and go as you please, staying just long enough to whet
their appetite for more of you.  Reappear before they forget you,
and disappear again so they'll talk about you.  You'll become an
attractive man by letting everyone else do all the work.

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feet around women, shyness, awkward conversations, and butterflies
in your stomach. That doesn't have to be you and you can dominate a
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others that I think you'll find equally as fascinating:

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On with the fun...

 


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"


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