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Written by John Alanis   

Practice makes perfect and desiring.


 

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Hey Guys,

I see it all the time.  A nice guy sees a woman, goes up to her and
says, "oh you're so beautiful, you're so pretty."  She looks at him
awkwardly, inwardly rolls her eyes and says, "uh, thanks."

Then she walks a way.

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An attractive man sees the same woman, walks by her, looks her in
the eye and says, "Nice, very nice."  A thrill of excitement runs
up her spine, she looks back at him and says, "thanks."

Then she waits to see what he'll say or do next.  After all, she
feels attraction for him.

What's the difference in reaction to the two guys?

It all has to do with the "vibe" each is putting out.  The nice guy
puts out an asexual vibe, seeking not to offend.  His comment is to
curry favor with her, hoping she'll like him because of it.

The attractive man puts out a deliberately sexual vibe.  He lets
her know with his subtle comment and energy that he desires her and
makes no excuses for his desires as a man.  He doesn't care if she
likes him or not.

One thing you have to understand about women is this:  women desire
the desire of men.  They want to be wanted, want to be appreciated
as women.  That's why they dress the way they do.

They don't want men who are afraid to express their desire.  They
don't want men who view them as antiseptic good girls.  They want
men who are unafraid to appeal to their bad girl side.

BUT...they don't want men to do it in a piggish manner.  Women are
attracted to intelligent men, men who can control their desire, yet
still express it in a clever way at the same time.  The man who can
hold back, while slowly dialing it up is an unattractive man indeed.

How do you get the vibe?  You practice, man.  First you're aware of
it.  Secondly you get rid of what doesn't work.  Thirdly, you start
taking action.  You will fail some, sure, but understand this:
even if a woman rejects you, she's still secretly flattered you
desired her.

Men who have the vibe attract women.  Men who don't watch men with
it attract women.

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On with the fun...

 


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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