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Being gracious is a powerful thing
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WANTS you to succeed.
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Hey Guys,
In my line of work I talk to and hear from a lot of guys. Many are
not good with women. Some are. Most get better once they take
action, invest in systems and put what I tell them to do to work.
What's the difference between long term success and failure? There
are many reasons, but one of them is controlling your emotions in
the moment.
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I've known many men who've been attracted to female friends or
women they used to date react badly in the moment when that woman
tells them she met a guy she's really excited about,
They get jealous, start pouting, and say things in the moment
they'll later regret, but she won't forget. They'll tell her it
won't work, she's stupid for dating him, and so on.
That's a huge mistake. What you should do is be gracious in the
moment, and congratulate her. Why? Because the moment tends to
pass quickly and she'll remember how you reacted in the moment.
Women make decisions about men based on how they feel in the
moment, and those feelings change as the moment changes. The guy
she's gaga about today is the loser she can't stand tomorrow.
He'll change his behavior, she'll change her feelings, and she'll
remember how you reacted.
Were you an ass in the moment? She'll remember. Were you gracious
and supportive in the moment? She'll remember, and if you still
find her attractive, you'll have an opportunity.
Understand this: if a woman is "feeling it" for a guy, you're not
going to talk her out of it, no matter how much overwhelming
evidence you can present. Women don't make decisions about men
based on evidence, they make it based on feeling.
That, however, is good news for you. If you can see the evidence,
and you just wait, he'll make the case for you. He'll eventually
do something that kills the attraction, and she'll be done with
him, saying yet again, "I just don't know what I saw in that guy."
Very few men take this approach. Most whine, pee, moan, and
denigrate when she wants support. So be gracious, be cool, and be
patient. He will eventually screw it up, and do all the heavy
lifting for you. Then he'll be the same old turd, and you'll be
the different, gracious man.
Sometimes a little knowledge is a powerful thing.
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I have something a little different for you...
I want to introduce you to a woman named Elaine Davis. She's
actually a stand up comedian with credits including: Saturday Night
Live, HBO, FOX, NBC, and ABC. But she's coming from a unique
perspective. She's also a certified life coach through the Ford
Institute for Integrative Coaching at JFK University. Her report,
"8 Shortcuts to Lasting Love & Laughter with Women" is producing
powerful results and getting rave reviews. If you're tired of
wondering what you're doing wrong or why you feel "stuck" with the
wrong woman or NO woman... then you MUST read this:
http://www.elitematelove.com
Her system is simple, easy to put into effect, and it WORKS.
Simple stuff, told from a woman's point of view... but this woman
WANTS you to succeed.
******
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS It's the one big secret to attraction:
http://www.elitematelove.com
User: ice_girl, Texas
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