I’m good friends with this gorgeous, sexy man who NEVER has a problem meeting women. He normally gets approached by females who go gaga over him yet he knows what he likes: big women.. and not a thick size 12. So it posed a little bit of an issue when my friend who’s a lot smaller than his normal type asked me to hook her up. When I reminded him who she was, he was like “She’s okay..but no thanks”. I’m like – "I know she’s not your type but she’s really cool!”. And this is when I got the answer that would become an aha moment for me. He stopped folding his laundry and looked at me, " I have a preference but so do you and it’s all good but what really attracts me to a woman has more to do her level of confidence..now that shit is so sexy…and a woman who knows she’s the shit ALWAYS out wins good looks.” …So once again, no matter what shape, size or style, I’m reminded that although there’s power in the pussy, authentic confidence ALWAYS rules!!