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Obviously not. There are TONS of happy couples out there who share real and lasting love.
So how do they do it?
How do other WOMEN do it?
Well, the difference is, both partners in these relationships were really and truly "ready" not just for love themselves, but for how love will work with THE OTHER PERSON.
In your case, that would mean that you would need to be both ready to deal with how love is going to affect you as a woman... AND be ready to deal with how A MAN is going to act and affect you mentally and emotionally.
Are you going to get overwhelmed, angry, sad, and frustrated with a man when things aren't "perfect"?
Or are you going to have the wisdom, confidence and knowledge to stay in control and share your feelings in the way a true lover would?
If you want to take the next step and regain your confidence, your "emotional center", and become the kind of woman who's TRULY ready for love and creates the right situations for herself without even THINKING about it... then go check this out now:
http://www.elitematelove.com
Here's the thing.
If you don't have "your act together" when you're with a man... and you're not conscious of how your own fears and insecurities can cause you to act.
Then you're probably going to STAY STUCK repeating patterns and dead-end relationships that drain you and lead you from one bad relationship to another.
Why?
Because any time things make you feel uncertain or fearful... you're going to ruin your own chances by letting your negative or fearful emotions take over.
And the man you're with is going to SEE this and get that bad feeling inside his stomach that makes him want to pull away from you for good.
I can't tell you how many times I've seen this happen to good women.
You have the best of intentions...
You want true and lasting love more than anything in the world....
You think you know how a relationship should work...
And you get into relationship after relationship with men, hoping that this time it will be different and that he won't be like the others.
Unfortunately, things don't seem to work out in the end for 98% of these women.
Why?
The short answer is because 98% of men don't fit these women's picture of how a real and secure relationship is supposed to work.
Of course, this picture is just an ideal, and not how things work with a real man.
And it's the gap between these women's ideals and reality that causes the conflict, uncertainty, frustration, and fear that ends up tearing their own relationships apart.
Of course, the other 2% of women actually DO end up having that great guy show up who figures out how to make things work for them, because he "gets it" on such a deep level that he can hold things together and work through everything that comes up in their relationship.
Raise your hand if you want to wait around to be one of the few and "lucky" 2%?
If you're raising your hand, then you can stop reading right now.
But if you're not waiting around for luck, and you want to TAKE BACK CONTROL of your love life and guide yourself to somewhere better, then you CAN, right now.
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