HERE'S A RULE YOU NEED TO REMEMEBER:

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Never allow men who have "someone else" in their
life to keep sharing and expressing their feelings
for you.
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It's wrong on several levels... for you most of all.

When a man can have the affection of two women,
and he's in a place where he's emotionally
non-committed to either, odds are he will try to
keep this situation going for as long as possible!

Not all men would do this, but men who are
"unavailable", as it sounds your ex is, can continue
multiple initimate situations at once.

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You don't want to date a man that's in this place
in his life..... and I know because I've been this guy
in my past!    

NO AMOUNT of talking, experience or reasoning with
him can get him to feel the way you want him to feel.

You can't change a man's emotional depth and where
he's at in his life.

"Getting him back" is a bad idea.

Rarely does this give you what you think you want. 

It's a losing battle, and you're going to end up
being hurt or upset again as you undoubtedly keep
moving farther and farther away from what YOU ideally
want and closer and closer to whatever strange and
unhealthy situation he's creating.

If you feel like you HAVE to see this through, then
be careful. You're going against the odds.

Don't be "that girl".

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And I promise that you'll ruin your chances if
you think you can "convince" him to come back to you
through shows of affection, appeals to his desires
or other "gifts" to bribe him.

I've watched this EXACT thing unfold so many times.

IT DOESN'T WORK!

Instead, you should think about the times you've
broken up and the times you've seen that he wasn't
personally ready for a relationship.

Those things are as real as the strong feelings
and emotions you feel that keeps you coming back.

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Use the issues and challenges you had together
as a guide or a reminder of what's keeping you two
apart now.

And once you start doing this, I think you're
going to be strangely surprised at what starts to
happen for you...

Once your guy notices that he doesn't have you
waiting around for him like a puppy dog to figure
it out, while he's off doing god knows what with
other women, there's going to be a big change in
his attitude and behavior.

It doesn't make "sense", but that's how it WORKS. 

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THE CRITICAL SKILLS OF UNDERSTANDING MEN'S SIGNALS AND
IDENTIFYING GOOD MEN FROM "UNAVAILABLE TOADS"....
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You've got to learn to understand and identify
"EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE" men.

If a man doesn't know what he wants, he generally
doesn't want what he's got.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth of the
situation. And even when it isn't completely true, it's
a good rule to go by.

A good man who is the right person and wants to be
with you will find his own way to his "Emotional Truth".

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If his truth is that he wants to be with you, or not
be with you, you have to respect that.

But I see women do it all the time.