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Get back to the things that you enjoy, the places
you like to go and avoid places or things you used to
do or see with your ex.

Spend some time with your friends and give yourself
the space you deserve.

The less you talk about your ex and this situation for
now, the better off you'll be.

And I think you'll be amazed at the results.

First, I think you'll just plain old feel better.

But even better than that, you'll be breaking the
old connection that you had with your "x".

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And as counterintuitive as it sounds, breaking
out of your old connection is actually the thing
that's going to change the situation for you the most
and help get you the results you want.

Right now, your convincing him and your wanting him
back, even when he's with another woman, is making you
come off in all kinds of ways that men just don't respond
well to.

I know it seems like the best idea to keep trying
to stay in touch with him and keep the connection
alive.

But the truth is that you're just keeping this same
old situation alive by pumping your time and attention
into it.

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If instead, you step back and stop chasing him or
trying to convince him you're the right woman, you'll
have an opportunity to do something that can honestly
be ATTRACTIVE to him-

You first leave a space that he'll not recognize
and not understand, which will first get him thinking
about you and then wondering why you aren't acting the
way you used to.

Men love "new" things and curiousities.

Plus, you'll also be able to give him the space
he's tried asking you for in his retarded emotionally unavailable "man-speak".

Something funny happens when a man gets the space
he asked for-

If you do it in the right way, he's forced to deal
with himself and his own feelings to figure out that
all the things he is worried about, afraid of, fearful
of "committing to", etc.

And being by himself, he'll see that these things
are really just in his own mind - and not bad things
about YOU.

In other words - he won't keep taking all the old
"stuff" from the past that wasn't working and keep
identifying it with YOU.

But you've to go know the way to "re-wire" the
connection once you've broken the old one.

And if you can do this, I guarantee he'll come
calling wondering about you.

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In my ebook, "Catch Him And Keep Him", I detail
specific ways to communicate with men that will help
you build that new connection.

There are several psychological and behavioral
"keys" that will help to open a man up, and just as
importantly, make him feel that electric kind of
ATTRACTION for you.

I'm talking about the kind of attraction that
gets a guy feeling, at a deep level, that he wants to
be with you right now AND far into the future.

This goes for the "unavailable" guys too that seem
to keep withdrawing and don't communicate much about
their feelings or what they want.

These guys are the toughest ones.

If there's just ONE PIECE OF ADVICE that holds more
power for women than any other when it comes to men, it's
this concept of only dating emotionally available men.

In my ebook, I also talk about how to identify good
men from the "unavailable" ones.

If you're dating, wouldn't it be great to know what
kind of guy you're dealing with FROM THE START?

And if think you're already got an unavailable guy
on your hands, and you're wondering what you can do after
all the frustrating disappointments that have gone on...

There's AN ENTIRE SECTION of the book dedicated to
helping you both understand the emotional world of a
man (yikes, right!) and how to lead him to a better way
of being with and understanding you.

So make the choice to do something about your love-
life and create the situation you want in your life.

Go check out my ebook now.

You can download it and be reading it in just a
couple of minutes.

Check it out here:

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And best of luck in life and love!

Your Friend,

Christian Carter