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Lot's of women don't even consciously see that
they do this because the process is so obvious and
simple for them.
But does the same apply for men?
As you probably already know, men are generally
more visual.
As a result, they often don't understand
non-verbal communication as well as women.
And men often lack what women have in emotional
awareness and "intuition".
Women don't seem to remember this about men.
So do men feel sexually attracted to w0men
based just on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for years now,
and talking to thousands of men and women, I can
tell you that men have their "attraction mechanisms"
triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Especially when it comes to longer term
relationships.
Looks just happen to be the most obvious way...
But looks are NOT the most powerful.
If you know how to use your body language AND
communication correctly, you can make men feel
the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to
you that YOU feel when you see that hot, great
looking guy that you got to know.
But it's not an accident.
You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY woman can learn how...
http://www.elitematelove.com
Mistake #3) Pretending To Be Something For A Man
In the desire to please a man, women are
constantly doing things to get a man's attention,
to get him to like them or to make him more
attracted or in love with them.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Lots of women mistakenly think that doing
unusual things to try and get a guys attention
will make him magically see what a great catch
they are and want to be with them.
Wrong.
Men YOU TRULY WANT are never attracted to
the types of women who kiss up to them, make
weak plays for affection or complain to get
what they want... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here. Things like being
sexy for a man or encouraging him to share his
feelings can be good, but it has to be genuine,
unselfish, and most of all timely.
You don't have to act like an "easy" woman
for men to like you, and you certainly don't have
to play like he's some gift to the Earth.
Doing these things actually works to subtly,
at an subconscious level, lower your social status
with a man, which has EVERYTHING to do with how
he sees you as a woman.
So if you think that making him more attracted
to you means "playing to the man's fantasies" from
the start, think again.
You'll never succeed by looking for a man's
approval, finding your way into his heart through
sex and not being yourself.
http://www.elitematelove.com
Mistake #4) Sharing How You "Feel" Too Early With Him
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that
most women make with men is sharing how they
"feel" too early on.
Listen...
Attractive, single, successful men are rare.
They get a LOT of attention from women.
Most women don't realize this, but attractive men
are being approached in one way or another all the
time by women.
And guess what?
Attractive wen have usually dated a lot of women.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive men off
and sends him running away faster than just about
anything...
It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really,
REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
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