And the men who ARE looking for this kind
of situation aren't exactly the most healthy,
loving, nurturing people out there.

Think, "controlling, macho or serious Mom Issues!"

So let me be clear....

I think it's important that people help
fulfill each other in their lives, whether
it's dating, a relationship, etc.

But if a woman communicates that she's
looking for a guy to take care of her, complete
her, make her whole, and all that kind of
stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what
the man will think of her.

It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman
either...

If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man
will see it and pick up on it, regardless.

This is arguably the worst thing a woman
can do early on when dating a man.

So what can you do as a woman?

You can get the man interested and involved
in your life in a more "natural" way, where
he'll be motivated to make you care about your
happiness and fulfillment on his own.

This is the only way it really works for
people - male or female.

Self-motivation is much stronger than external
motivation.

But you have to know how to create this situation
with a man....and it rarely happens by accident.

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Mistake #8) Trying To "Convince" Him To Like You Or Love You

What do most women do when they meet a man
that they REALLY like... but he's just not
that interested or isn't as serious?

Right! They try to "convince" the man to
feel differently.

Well, I have news for you...

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN "FEELS" WHEN
IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, ever.

You cannot convince a man to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a man doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that by being
"reasonable" with him?

But we all do it.

Men are the worst at this by the way.

They're always complimenting women who
don't like them and buying them gifts.

Women like the behavior sometimes, but it
NEVER makes the woman like the man.

She might enjoy what she gets out of it,
but it doesn't change the way she FEELS
about him.

When a man just isn't interested, women
will try and chase, compliment, convince and
do their best to change his mind with logical
and rational approaches.

Bad idea. Another one that will never work.

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Mistake #9) Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation

A man has a clear idea of what he wants from
a woman...

And I don't mean just sex.

I know, it might be hard to believe, but
if you're out on a date with a man, he already
has an idea of what he wants from you.

And if you don't know HOW to find this out,
and you just sit there looking at him and flirting,
or trying things you think will make him want you,
he won't help!

If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you'll probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

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Mistake #10) Not Getting Help

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This mistake keeps women from EVER having
the kind of success and finding the kind of
man and relationship that they truly want.

I know, you don't like to make yourself
look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask
for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me.

Over the last few years it's been hard to
watch the women around me (even those I dated)
struggle to understand the men they were
attracted to or dating.