When you're in love, you probably think
about the guy ALL the time and want to spend
every possible moment with him.

And you and your guy share an intense
connection.

The chemistry's so thick you could cut
it with a knife.

And the world, people, colors, smells...
everything seems brighter.

The attraction level is unbelievable.

The honeymoon stage does some crazy things
to your body too.

Here's a few of the "Love symptoms" that
come with these chemicals in the honeymoon
stage:

-heightened awareness (your senses)
-reduced appetite
-increased heart rate
-increased energy level
-an increase in your sex drive
-feelings of euphoria (intense happiness)

Actually, I'm kinda feeling this way
right now after my third cup of coffee here
at Starbucks.

Anyways...

So that's the first stage of love we all
know about, want to be in and want to keep
going.

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It's no wonder that the honeymoon stage
is often the easy part.

But there's a simple and unpleasant fact
about the honeymoon stage...

If you don't what's going on with a man
in each stage of love, and know what you're
doing and how he perceives it, all the great
parts of the honeymoon stage won't last
forever.

WHAT MEN THINK ONCE THE HONEYMOON IS OVER

I get emails everyday from women wanting
to know how they can "get back" to where
things were when things started with a man.

They remember how things used to be and
wonder why they can't be that way now.

So they ask themselves...

"Why is he so distant?"

"Why doesn't he share his feelings
anymore?"

"Why don't I feel close to him, and why
am I not getting my emotional and other
needs met like I used to?"

So why is this is so common to so many
women?

I've recognized what a big part of it is.

CHANGE.

When things are good, or more to the point
comfortable or predictable in our lives, we
DON'T like the idea of change... at all.

In any relationship, after the initial
attraction, mystery, intrigue, etc. passes
and the honeymoon slows, guess what?

Things start to change inside a relationship.

Whether you like it, or not.

And both the man and the woman are
responsible to know how to see it, think about
it and deal with it.

And here's where TONS of women run into
a whole set of COUNTERPRODUCTIVE thoughts
and SELF-DESTRUCTIVE behaviors.

They get caught up in an almost hopeless
battle to try and prolong the honeymoon stage
and the ease by which they could connect and
share with the man.

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Especially when they don't see that the man
is noticing or making the same effort they are.

This usually shows up with things like
the following (tell me if any of these sound
familiar?):

-Noticing that a man isn't as attentive or
affectionate anymore, so you pull back to see
if he'll notice and close the gap, but he
doesn't and so you withdraw, leaving nothing
but distance between you two