-Trying to CONVINCE a man to FEEL some way
or act some way he used to or you want him to,
which of course doesn't work because you can't
"logically" make someone FEEL an EMOTION, and
it all ends up backfiring as he sees you as
needy or "nagging" and pulls away more

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-You start "trading" him for the normal caring
things any couple should do for each other. You
only act open or affectionate if he does something
first. You only initiate things physically if
he does something first, etc. The list goes
on...

Recognize anything here?

Well, these unfortunately common behaviors
actually work as a special high-grade form of
"man-repellent" in a relationship.

When men sense the emotionally uneasy
feeling these create, they most often do one
thing with a woman...

WITHDRAW.

And they start their own weird emotional
versions of the same kinds of destructive and
distance-creating behaviors.

The truth is, every woman is going to go
through situations that are going to make her
want to react in these COUNTERPRODUCTIVE way.

But there's a better way...

THE DANGEROUS SECRET OF MEN IN LOVE

So what comes after the honeymoon stage?

And how can a woman stay close and connected
with a man so they both transition into the
next stage together and enjoy it?

And why do so many relationships fall flat
during this time?

The next stage in our emotional love cycle
is what scientists have called the "bonding
stage".

This second set of feelings and experiences
are the "settle-down-raise-a-family-spend-time-
cuddling-watch-movies-together" ones.

They're all about bonding, attachment,
comfort and more long term stuff.

And, I've been thinking about one big
important question that I know tons of
women want to know about which relates to
all this.

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We all know that lots of men can have a
hard time staying connected and close to a
woman after the honeymoon.

When the intense physical attraction
changes and things become more "emotionally
involved".

Lots of times they'll become, distant,
boring, dispassionate, lazy, or ever worse...

Unfaithful.

Yikes.

With all this going on, the question is...

*Once you have love, how do you make it
last?

Here's where I'm going tell you the
secret that most women don't know about
men and love.

And it has to do with keeping things
going strong once "the honeymoon stage"
is over.

Men have a dark secret they won't
tell you about their views on love.

And for most men, they couldn't even
tell you if they wanted to, because they
don't even know it about themselves...

It's also something that most women
can't understand about men.

I know you've wondered about it in the
past and even said it to yourself.

Well, you were right.

Most men know about 1,000 times less than
you do about real lasting love.

About communicating about love,
experiencing it, sharing it, feeling it
intensely, keeping it going... all of it.

And hey, maybe that wasn't such a secret
to you... but you're finally hearing it from
the horse's mouth here. (a man)

Seriously though - we can be idiots when
it comes to being open and close partners in
long term relationships.