We don't understand some of the things
that seem natural, intuitive and obvious to
most women.

And we often stop paying attention to the
important aspects of a relationship, including
consistent and communication, affection, honesty,
you name it.

I see it all around me, and sometimes
within myself too, as a man.

But the reality is that this is just the
tip of the iceberg.

Here's the thing...

Some men weren't brought up with a
real clear idea of what else there is to
love for them besides passion, sex, social
status and maybe having a family.

Which leads me to another secret about
men in love...

Deep down, men expect love to stay in
the "honeymoon stage".

Think about it.

For lots of men, the honeymoon stage IS
the only part of love they've ever even
thought about or identified as being something
they really truly want.

I'm talking about the chemistry, the
attention and the ATTRACTION here that so
often drives men CRAZY and has them acting in
ways they'd be embarassed for their guy friends
to know about.

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That's why, for so many men, when the
"honeymoon stuff" isn't new anymore, they think
love and passion have all but disappeared.

And the truth is, for lots of men, they don't
know what else love is about... so they start
to think that maybe this really isn't what they
thought it was.

Men at this stage often say things like:

"I guess she's NOT the one."

Or...

"I love her, but I'm not IN LOVE with her
anymore..."

Or...

"She's not the person she used to be when
we met, and that 'spark' is gone."

A LOT of this can be chocked up to the fact
that the man AND the woman aren't feeling all
the intense honeymoon "stuff" anymore.

And less mature, non-committal men don't
plain DON'T KNOW what is "supposed" to happen,
and how it works as love moves into the bonding
stage.

And they often end up making terrible or
disappointing boyfriends or companions.

Scary, huh?

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WHAT CREATES A LASTING CONNECTION WITH A MAN-
BEYOND THE "HONEYMOON STAGE"

There's something FASCINATING that I
recognized a few years back as I was studying
and observing behaviors inside relationships.

Some women actually had an EASY time in
relationships with men, while other women NEVER
did, no matter what they tried.

In other words...

Being close, committed, passionate, intimate-
these were all relatively simple and almost
effortless for some women to have in a relationship.

While other women had to fight, argue and
STRUGGLE just to try and share the things they
felt were "the basics" in any relationship.

Here's the thing...

The women I knew who were the most successful
at finding and creating what they wanted in their
love lives with men all had a few KEY TRAITS or
"habits" in common.

In other words, there are several specific
actions and behaviors that these women do inside
relationships that make a man FEEL close and
deeply CONNECTED to them.