After studying these things that some women do,
and others don't with men, I've boiled them down to
two basic "relationship skills".

And these two things directly relate to
whether a woman will have a strong, close and
secure connection or "bond" with a man beyond
the honeymoon stage...

Or if the man will start to question
everything about the woman he's with and
their relationship, and close off.

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1. THINKING AND COMMUNICATING WITH A MAN
IN HIS "EMOTIONAL CONTEXT"

I learned something that works in every
area of life by studying love and relationships.

People who are great with people and
relationships tend communicate in a way that is
targeted or aimed at the OTHER PERSONS point of
view, experience, and level of understanding.

Translation for you = if you want to
really connect with a man, then HIS LEVEL
of "emotional awareness" becomes YOUR
CONTEXT for conversations about love and
relationships.

Otherwise, he's not going to "get" or
respond to anything you're talking about.

And everything you say and do to try and
get him to understand you, and make him feel
or act differently, will BACKFIRE.

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And he'll become MORE DISTANT and LESS
OPEN to communicating and understanding YOU.

And yeah, I get that a man SHOULD get most
of this stuff that you probably already do
about a love and a relationship if he's in one
with you-

But if he doesn't... don't make the FATAL
MISTAKE tons of women make here by trying to
CONVINCE him of what you know and feel to be
what he needs to think and feel too.

Assume a man's got no idea of where
you're coming from when you talk to him about
something you'd like to be different in
your relationship.

Let me teach you a trick I learned by
watching women who are great at commmunicating
with men in relationships...

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An easy way to get in touch with his
level of awareness and where he's at is to ask
him what he thinks about the relationships of
the couples you both know.

You can learn a TON about how a man thinks
about dating and relationships this way...

And learn how to approach him and
communicate with him as a result.

2. EMOTIONAL "INVESTING" (NOT SPENDING)

A while back in my life, I started looking
at relationships more like investments in
people, instead of a way to get a pay-off
for myself.

Investing usually means that you give up
something big to get a little back consistently
over time.

In other words, you don't expect an immediate
greater or equal return for what you're putting
in.

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It's become the Golden Rule I've learned with
people and relationships that helps keep me
happy and sane:

"You'll always give more than you'll
get - but it doesn't "cost" you anything
to give... so keep giving without any immediate
expectation."

So yeah, I'm saying for you to be the
person to make things happen.

Take the fate of your love life into your
own hands.

Be generous, take action, surprise him
and be spontaneous instead of waiting for him
to do it with you.

I know this can be tough and frustrating.

If you're like most people, then you want
someone to just "get you" and give you the kind
of love and attention you crave.

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But if you can separate what you want from
what it takes to create it, you'll find that
doing these things will get you RESULTS.

And you'll see that doing the things THAT
WORK can be like magic with a man...