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Re:When was your first!
Date: 2008/04/27 13:55 By: Bikerhen Status: User  
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First love; so sweet, so painful.
My first broken heart was at 16. I was in love with a boy who came to this area every summer for holidays. We met when we were ten and we did everything together, spent every day of the summer together for about five years. Then the summer came when he had a job where he lived and he didn't come for holidays. We were both heart-broken, but the time comes when you grow up and start doing adult things.
We still keep in touch, write once in awhile and call once a year at Christmas. He's probably my oldest friend (oldest, as in length of time, not age, hahaha)
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Re:When was your first!
Date: 2008/04/28 21:32 By: Angel Status: User  
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My first broken heart was at 18. My boyfriend broke up with me because we were going to college and he wanted to be free to date other people. I knew we probably wouldn't be together forever, but it still hurt.

Looking back I'm sure it was for the best. I met a lot of people and did a lot of fun things in college that I probably wouldn't have done if we had stayed together. I guess in the end he actually did me a favor, it just didn't seem like it at the time.
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Re:When was your first!
Date: 2008/04/30 03:44 By: Soulmateless Status: User  
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Long distance relationships rarely work. I'm not going to say never because some people pull it off, but usually it's too easy to grow in opposite directions if you are in different places. It was probably best to end the relationship before you went off to college, but I'm sure it caused a lot of tears.
We've all had broken hearts. We survive.
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Re:When was your first!
Date: 2008/04/30 22:13 By: Angel Status: User  
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I agree that long distance relationships rarely work. However, in my case, we were both going to the same college. But like I said, I probably had a much better experience than if I would have stayed with him. It just didn't seem like it at the time.
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Re:When was your first!
Date: 2008/05/01 01:00 By: Soulmateless Status: User  
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I'll tell you, the college days are the time to let your hair down and have some fun. Soon enough the adult world of job, responsibilities and family come along. It's much better if they come along and you have no regrets about not having enjoyed those younger years, not having looked around and seen what's out there.
I know it had to be painful, but one person can't hold a relationship together, both people have to want to do that. I'm glad it was a good experience in the end.
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