Aright follow for a minute. Me my husband and a good friend of his use to hang out a lot...we all worked in the same department so thats how we all got to know each other. My husband and I got married, we didnt see our friend for a whole year, he came up to our childs first birthday party. After that our friend moved out of state and we hardly ever heard from him again. I found our friend a couple years later on Myspace and added him to my delight! We wrote back n forth for a few weeks. He asked if I could meet him for coffee--he moved back to our state. When I met him for coffee we hugged forever :) it was so nice to see him again...mind you it was just me that met him. We caught up talked...it was fun. A few weeks later emails from him became more suggestive. I didn't tell my husband. I kept my emails friendly...our friends were more about him 'thinking about you a lot' 'missing your face' 'we have to meet again' These kinds of things. I told my friend that we could meet for coffee again thatd be fun--its been at least 6 months or more since the "hug" time. This last email he said he wanted me to come to his place for wine... I didn't reply back. :( I dont want to mess up the friendship, I wanted to meet him but not for anything more then just to shoot the shit again and give him a hug. Why is he acting like this when he knows I'm married and he knows I have kids? It's not like he cant get women either---hes very attractive and a very talented well known regional artist. There was a point when I was almost lured and turned on by it but I'm happy---I just wonder why hes trying to get on me? Guys? :unsure:
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Re:I'm Married Hes Not...WTF?
Date: 2007/08/30 14:15
By: Geline
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Hello :)
I'm not a guy but I think that person has felt a certain attraction of you apart from other girls. Or, it may also be because you have allowed yourself to be alone in meeting him after a long time of his absence. He might have also thought that your exchanging emails with him means that he can get what he wants from you. It's just a matter of analyzing the whole situation and the way he has acted since the start. I believe that you can discover the real reason why he's doing this and don't forget to think of the consequences if ever you decide on giving in.
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