[color=#FF6600]girls sorry to be so blunt about this im a 45year old woman not new to dating ive been single (divorced) for 3 years. so far the dating has been invigorating and exciting and i like my new independence but last night, and forgive me for this, i met a man that ive been talkng to on the net. he was in my city for business weve been talking for about a month. anyway we had a nice dinner and he invited me to his hotel for a drink at the bar. ok nice enough it was around 2 and he asked if i wanted to come up. so i did :blush: he started off being quite romantic and forward which was ok. and then when things got hot and really heavy he reached under his pillow and pulled out this giant black strap on! :blink: :blink: he whispered and asked me if id put it on :huh: i've never done anything like this before! so i kind of reluctantly did not knowing what to do. he stopped all the lovely things he was doing to me and started working on that fake phallic toy. anyway with out going in to too grusome of details he wanted me to USE the dildo on HIM the rest of the time until he was finished, later finishing me off another way. what does this mean? is he a closet gay? is he bi? does this mean he doesnt like me to have real sex with?
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Re:strapping it on lol
Date: 2007/12/21 12:19
By: destiny_star2006
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He may just presume that because of your age your used to this kind of kinky stuff! And if you have participated in this then he wont have known you were unfamiliar with it! Dont go anywhere you dont want to and make sure you tell him how far your prepared to go unless he wont know and then things may get out of hand! Did it turn you on when you were using this strap on or was it totally gross! You need to tell him or as i say he will never know! I dont think hes gay as me and my partner has messed around anally a number of times although he wouldnt go as far as a strap on but thats each to theiw own prefrences! Dont wurry if your happy with it go with the flow but if not this guy needs to know or he may hurt you!
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Re:strapping it on lol
Date: 2008/01/06 15:31
By: destiny_star2006
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Would like an update on this situation if possible abc??? Have you reached a compromisation!????
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Re:strapping it on lol
Date: 2008/04/27 14:08
By: Bikerhen
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On a first date? Okay, now this old girl is having second thoughts about the dating field...I get grossed out by the thought of insertable sex toys. How about this scenario: You start seeing some man and you get into a sexual relationship He then hauls out a box of toys. If he has them in his bedroom, they are likely used. Do I want to play with someone else's toys? Nope! Exactly who else might have been using them? and were they properly cleaned... ugh, grossed out.
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Re:strapping it on lol
Date: 2008/04/27 21:26
By: Angel
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I think it would gross me out, especially on a first date. Thankfully no guys have ever even suggested anything like that. I agree with Bikerhen, how do you know what other women he has used the toys with. Even if they were cleaned, I still think it would be gross. It's kind of like going to a garage sale to buy sex toys. Yuck!!
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Re:strapping it on lol
Date: 2008/04/29 18:14
By: Sublime78
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:ohmy: Gah!!! I understand that some guys have kinky fetishes like this, but I have to admit that it really grosses me out. Not to mention as Bikerhen said, just how many people have used this toy in the past?? This dude obviously has some issues, whether they be sexual identity or otherwise. This might not sound very open-minded, but my opinion would be to run away, fast!
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