I agree with you Bikerhen. I think there are many people who are so afraid of rejection, or physical or emotional pain, that they let it dictate their lives. Instead going after something they really want, they sit back and live with what they have. I guess for some people it's easier to always wonder 'what might have been' instead of actually knowing the truth and taking that risk. I too am working on overcoming some similar fears.
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